Author one goal Posted May 1, 2011 Author Posted May 1, 2011 Then you take a deep breath, relax, and you deal with the situation accordingly. Whatever you do, don't make a big deal out of it. You don't want the situation blown out of proportion. And try to calm down. I know that's easier said than done, but think about it this way. Soon it will be over and you can move on with life. This upsets me because I shown interest in her and I'm rejected so harshly.
Kamille Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 You're giving outside forces way too much power over your emotions. Here's a list of things you can do to relax-destress-unwind: Hot bath - shower Run - exercise Watch a comedy - sitcom (laugh) Go out with friends Meditate - breathing exercise - yoga Reading Napping - sleeping Masturbate (that's right, it'll help you unwind) Therapy Massages Once you learn that you have control over your state of mind, you'll feel empowered and minor events such as these won't affect you so much. So... I ask again: what are you going to do to stop feeling this bad? How are you going to help yourself feel better?
Author one goal Posted May 2, 2011 Author Posted May 2, 2011 The dept head emailed me back today and said I can meet with her on Tue morning. Hi. We can meet before class on Tuesday. And just to let you know there is an attendance policy in all our courses within the department so you should attend class. XXX is a very professional professor and will continue to be professional and appropriate in the classroom st all times. Thank you
whichwayisup Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 The dept head emailed me back today and said I can meet with her on Tue morning. Hi. We can meet before class on Tuesday. And just to let you know there is an attendance policy in all our courses within the department so you should attend class. XXX is a very professional professor and will continue to be professional and appropriate in the classroom st all times. Thank you So stick to work related issues during the few classes you have left and DO NOT approach your teacher on a personal level. Don't suck up to her, ask her how she is..And, most of all, don't ask her out.
Kamille Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 Why do you insist on not listening to advice? I told you and many others have told you not to get the department head involved. What exactly is it you want to talk about with the department head? I don't see anything in your professor's behavior that warrants the involvement of the department head. Don't get me wrong, I don't think this is going to be a big deal. All that will happen is that you will waste your time, and, more importantly, the department head's time. The department head will likely only tell you a recap of what he or she told you in the email.
Intricategirl Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 Option 1: This person is a troll, and getting a lot of enjoyment from the responses. Advice isn't being followed because they aren't looking for advice. Option 2: This person is serious, but refuses to follow any advice given. Further advice is not needed, since it won't be listened to anyway. Option 3: This person is serious, but is only looking for advice that corresponds with what they intend on doing anyway. Further advice isn't needed, since they aren't really looking for advice, but agreement. Bye.
Professor X Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 Why do you guys keep responding to him seriously? You're just fueling the troll fire.
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