Professor X Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 http://lolpics.se/482-double-facepalm +1 for Piccard. I can't believe some people still think he's serious. +1 post count.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 I have a "never call troll" policy just in case..... I think it is funny how this thread has degenerated into a debate about the circumstance instead of giving the OP advice. We are all talking with each other.
Mrlonelyone Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Assuming this is real... I don't the huge problem with him turning in his work say via email. That's really common these days in fact some professors prefer it. It's more convienient for them.
VicJay79 Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 OneGoal: You are not the only person to have a crush on a Teacher. You also need to be mature enough to understand that being rejected/turned down doesn't mean you avoid the person. It means holding your own, and understanding not everything works as planned. Go to Class. Show her that you are more mature, and are capable of handling yourself. Learn from the fact you don't flirt with professors, wait staff, or people REQUIRED to be nice to you. As I said I asked her nicely if I could not attend class because of the conflict I have with her. Anyways she replied with this tonight. All I asked was if I could turn in my last assignment outside of class. This is her reply. She sounds mad! I said in other post I wanted to talk to the dept chair, but do you think I should go directly to the dept dean which is over the chair? I've seen her rate my professor reviews, and how she talks to others students she doesn't like, and she could really mess my final grade up.
Author one goal Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 If this guy isn't a troll he has Asperger's syndrome for sure. The inability to understand social cues and such is apparent. "Get away from me!" "So you're saying you like me?" No, I understand she doesn't like me. What I don't like is the way she scolded me like that accusing me of trying to tell her how to run her class. That really p*ssed me off and why I'm asking if I can speak to her and the dept head before I attend class again. Her comment was uncalled for.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 When you put people under this much pressure to like you, sometimes they lean the other way to make sure that you get the message.
Author one goal Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 When you put people under this much pressure to like you, sometimes they lean the other way to make sure that you get the message. She could have just told me she hates me. I'd been fine with it, but accusing me of telling her what to do really upsets me. I only made a suggestion to her because I was trying to help her because she didn't seem happy having me in class.
Lilmisus Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 She could have just told me she hates me. I'd been fine with it, but accusing me of telling her what to do really upsets me. I only made a suggestion to her because I was trying to help her because she didn't seem happy having me in class. Ohhh yea! "That will be fine. Seeing as I hate you and all, I would much prefer you e-mail me the last assignment than me having to see your face again. Thank you for your kind consideration, it is appreciated. Oh, and I would still like to go to that hockey game sometime. My number is ****, call me."
Author one goal Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 I'm done with dating unless I meet a girl I really like. Just not worth it.
somedude81 Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 one goal, just go to class and be a normal student. There's only about a month left right? Don't email her anymore, don't talk to her, don't stand out at all. Just show up and do the work.
Author one goal Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 one goal, just go to class and be a normal student. There's only about a month left right? Don't email her anymore, don't talk to her, don't stand out at all. Just show up and do the work. Week and a half to go. I don't want to speak to her anymore unless the dept head is present. I'm pretty hurt.
somedude81 Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Week and a half to go. I don't want to speak to her anymore unless the dept head is present. I'm pretty hurt. Yeah it makes sense to be hurt. You don't need to talk to her anymore. Just finish the class. But you must learn something from this experience. It's not good to obsess over somebody so much.
Kamille Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 She's right. You do not get to dictate how she runs the rest of her class. I'm part of the cohort of people One Goal has pmed, and I happen to know that the last evaluation is an in-class evaluation. There's also an evaluative component to the other 2 classes this week. In the email he send her, he asked her to be able to do the last evaluation at home, and to not be penalized for missing the other two. (All because he assumes she hates having him in class). He was trying to tell her how to run her class. In the email he sent her, he also "assumed" to know how she felt about him (dislike, hate). Not only is the matter of "how she feels about him" none of his business, it calls her professionalism into question (yet again). So OG, she finally took a firmer tone with you and decided to put her foot down. You asked her a question that was out of line, in a manner that was out of line and she answered the question. That's all she did. You're the one acting emotional and acting like a drama-king. The department chair would not take you seriously. Go for a run OG. Do whatever you have to do to take responsibility for your own emotions.
alethean Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 ARE YOU F**KING KIDDING ME? You are the most retarded person I have EVER met in my entire life, and I work with the public! YOU put yourself into this situation by being a complete and total idiot, trying to ask your teacher out and being, well, just a moron. YOU DON'T GET TO DICTATE WHAT HAPPENS IN THE CLASS THAT SHE GETS PAID TO TEACH. Suck it up and be a f**king man! You whiny little immature brat. Good god. Stop posting for crying out loud and start looking up some self help sh*t on the internet, lord knows you need it. Lmao. I love this. I would think he was a troll too, were it not for the Katharine McPhee story in his first thread. @ one goal, I don't understand how you can figure out some things (such as the fact that your teacher does not like you) and not know other important things (like why!). Maybe it is something like Asperger's or OCD, as others have suggested. All I can say is, you should not blame others for the outcomes of your actions. Take responsiblity for yourself and deal with the consequences, like everyone else has to do. Taking responsibility may even mean seeking outside help. Nothing wrong with admitting that you need help. I hope you find what you need, even if it is not necessarily what you want.
Author one goal Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 Go for a run OG. Do whatever you have to do to take responsibility for your own emotions. I do work out. I've been losing too much weight though lately because I haven't been eating much because my stomach from being nervous about school. So I'm cutting back my working out a bit.
Kamille Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 I do work out. I've been losing too much weight though lately because I haven't been eating much because my stomach from being nervous about school. So I'm cutting back my working out a bit. So what are you going to do to help yourself stop feeling nervous about school?
Author one goal Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 So what are you going to do to help yourself stop feeling nervous about school? Thats why I didn't want to go to class also. I'm not going to let her affect me though. She hates me fine. I wont see her again two weeks from now.
Kamille Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Thats why I didn't want to go to class also. I'm not going to let her affect me though. She hates me fine. I wont see her again two weeks from now. Well, now you have to go to class (at least the last one - and accept you'd lose points if you didn't go to the other ones). What are you going to do to manage your stress about it?
Author one goal Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 Well, now you have to go to class (at least the last one - and accept you'd lose points if you didn't go to the other ones). What are you going to do to manage your stress about it? I dunno. My stomach hurts at work right now.feel like im gonna barf. Im going to ask that she dont talk to me in class at all.
somedude81 Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 I dunno. My stomach hurts at work right now.feel like im gonna barf. Im going to ask that she dont talk to me in class at all. No! Don't talk to her at all anymore. Don't even think about her.
Author one goal Posted May 1, 2011 Author Posted May 1, 2011 No! Don't talk to her at all anymore. Don't even think about her. What happens she talks to me in class?
Art_Critic Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 What happens she talks to me in class? You ask her out.. dude she is yours Score !
somedude81 Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 Just be polite and don't bring up anything personal. Odds are though that she won't want to talk to you at all. She is your teacher and nothing more.
alethean Posted May 1, 2011 Posted May 1, 2011 What happens she talks to me in class? Then you take a deep breath, relax, and you deal with the situation accordingly. Whatever you do, don't make a big deal out of it. You don't want the situation blown out of proportion. And try to calm down. I know that's easier said than done, but think about it this way. Soon it will be over and you can move on with life.
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