wreckedhero Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 My gf ended it with me and has now said she needs time apart to think things over. Should I move on. How do I forget someone I really liked? This was my first ever serious relationship. Is that why I feel so empty and fearful that I won't meet anyone again. I'm worried what I will do if I see her with another man.
Author wreckedhero Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 I have told her that I will not take her back if she starts dating other people. Was that the right thing to do?
SleeplessRomantic Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Go full no contact. Rid your surroundings of the things that remind you of her. Move on. I know that sounds blunt, but trust me, it's for the best. Don't be her doormat. Focus on yourself for a little while -- your goals, dreams, ambitions, etc. Put your energy into that as well as into your hobbies. In the meantime, as an aside, stay social. Everything will be OK in the end, with time passing and energy being utilized.
Author wreckedhero Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 we work at the same place where gossip is rife. So people will no doubt tell me about what she is up to. I wanted ignorance to be bliss.
Fufu Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Logically and common sense, once a relationship ended, always move on. No questions and doubts about. Start NC.
Author wreckedhero Posted April 30, 2011 Author Posted April 30, 2011 I am going to. I just reckon that she has met someone else and that's why she ended it. I told her I wouldnt accept being number 2 in her life
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