AniD5061 Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 My boyfriend has been very distant lately, and we have not been spending the night together for the last three weeks. We were seeing each other 2-3 nights a week previously. I brought it up to him and asked him why he was being distant. He told me that he was really embarrassed because he injured his "member" during a work accident and the doctor told him he couldn't have sex for 2 weeks. He wouldn't even show it to me. He came over and tried to "please" me, and we have seen each other during the day a couple of times. But there has definitely been a distance between us because there are less phone calls and texts. He knows he can stay over, and we don't need to have sex, but could just cuddle. Is he really just that embarrassed about it? Or is there something else going on?
sugarmomma Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Could be an std outbreak like hpv or herpes. I could be wrong. *shrug*
whichwayisup Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 My boyfriend has been very distant lately, and we have not been spending the night together for the last three weeks. We were seeing each other 2-3 nights a week previously. I brought it up to him and asked him why he was being distant. He told me that he was really embarrassed because he injured his "member" during a work accident and the doctor told him he couldn't have sex for 2 weeks. He wouldn't even show it to me. He came over and tried to "please" me, and we have seen each other during the day a couple of times. But there has definitely been a distance between us because there are less phone calls and texts. He knows he can stay over, and we don't need to have sex, but could just cuddle. Is he really just that embarrassed about it? Or is there something else going on? He told you and yet you're doubting him. It took ALOT for him to tell you the reason and obviously he's been abit embarressed about it. Don't read into it. It is what it is...A sore penis or something and he can't have sex for a while. Try focussing on other things with him. Instead of staying home, go out and see a movie together, do a nice dinner, go for a romantic walk and hold hands.. Don't look for issues that aren't there. Trust him at his word.
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