justagirrl Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 Yesterday I was in class, my professor starts doing a lesson and brings up Tarzan and literally talks about it for like 20 minutes (my guy resembles tarzan in a way...same hair, body...ugh) On my way home from work: stopped at a light, behind the exact same car he has. Yesterday at work: I'm a cheerleading/tumbling instructor, and a new girl in one of my classes that i teach...has the same name as him (very ironic). I'm trying so hard with NC, but why is this happening?! It's just making me think about and miss him more.
Fufu Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 Yesterday I was in class, my professor starts doing a lesson and brings up Tarzan and literally talks about it for like 20 minutes (my guy resembles tarzan in a way...same hair, body...ugh) On my way home from work: stopped at a light, behind the exact same car he has. Yesterday at work: I'm a cheerleading/tumbling instructor, and a new girl in one of my classes that i teach...has the same name as him (very ironic). I'm trying so hard with NC, but why is this happening?! It's just making me think about and miss him more. Just stick on with NC, I also had seen lots of these kind of signs when I am in the midst of NC and I take it as an encouragement for myself to move forward. This tells me that my life is still ongoing even when he's not around with me anymore.
dragonfly22 Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 This is normal. My ex-fiance broke up with me 2 weeks ago and I also see "signs" everywhere. I see "his" car all the time, they play "our" songs at the gym I go to over and over again, I'm a teacher and yesterday a new student came to my class and his name is almost exactly the same as my ex, same last name and all! I guess it is normal, also we are more sensitive to these things. I guess I don't "see him" everywhere because I know he lives 3 hours away from here but I remember on my last breakup I "saw" my ex everywhere, only it really wasn't him. Over time we will start to not notice these things so much or just ignore them, but I know how much it sucks now having EVERYTHING remind you of him.
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