Sweet_T Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 So...after my ex started calling me after on 1 wk of NC, we started talking. This only lasted for a couple of days before he said I was calling too much. So the day after we kind of had it out over the phone...I texted him and asked him to come make love to me and he turned me down! I feel like such an ass! Like really WTF was I thinking?!?!?! The thing is...he was just trying on Sunday and I turned him down. I don't know how to feel about it, especially since I know he'llbe calling back
Fufu Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 Why are you doing this to yourself? Why do you want to break your own self-esteem? Start asking yourself some serious questions so you will not have the temptation to break NC.
TaraMaiden Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 "Time heals all!!!" No - it doesn't!!!!! You heal all!!! But first - you have to behave in the right way to permit the healing process to even begin!!!! Until you implement the right behaviour to enable you to move on and begin the process, you won't be healing anything. And Time will do diddly-squat..... sorry hun, but you have to do right, to feel right.
Author Sweet_T Posted May 5, 2011 Author Posted May 5, 2011 I know! And that's why I felt like such a fool! Im really trying...I want this feeling to go away. No one knows how much
Gisele Posted May 5, 2011 Posted May 5, 2011 I just did something similar, laid it all out there and gave him all the power At the very least, it's a lesson that's not easily forgotten It sounds a bit like mind games are involved: you rejected him on sunday, so he rejects you when YOU ask Either way, be the first to take the high road and CUT HIM OFF. Please please stick to No Contact. I couldnt bring myself to delete an ex's number, in case he texted and i didnt know who it was, but i did change the name in my contacts list to "Douchebag: dont do it" which sounds stupid but kind of helped
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