hurtex Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 I have to do it. I'm day 11. I just can't take the pain. He always says he doesn't like playing games and he said if I contacted him he would respond. I don't know what to say though. I know it needs to be casual but I don't know how. I know it needs to be light... .I don't know a text or a call? I know you will all tell me not to but I am struggling so badly. I can't give up hope I can't move on. I need to contact him. Help. :/
reallyconfused2542 Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 def a text if you have to...you have any plans to keep yourself busy all weekend?maybe take your mind off it and then reconsider on monday?
Author hurtex Posted April 29, 2011 Author Posted April 29, 2011 I do have plans but it never helps... no matter what I'm doing I'm depressed and overthinking about things. I'm trying hard to fight through the urge. I'm so scared that I'll contact him and that he'll totally reject me. Without hearing that it's over forever from him I can maintain hope. I don't know which is worse :/
Sassygirl2 Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 I went through the same thing but I had to think of something to say that was "light". I know most LSer's will say DON'T Contact him which is really the best way. If you absolutely have to, is there something you can say or ask that isn't related to the relationship? In my case I told him that my dog (the one we were/are sharing) did really well at her puppy class and how impressed I was by her. He responded how glad he was that she did well and that he would love to take her next week. I know it is over between us but we agreed to remain friendly for the dog. Is there something you can do to keep yourself busy? Can you go visit some friends for the weekend and get away?
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