one goal Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 This is about my last post. Like I said I emailed her asking her if she wanted to go to a hockey game sometime. Anyways I'm thinking thats going to make her angry. I was thinking since I have only 3 classes left and I really don't have anymore assignments other than a small one last day of class should I maybe ask her if I can complete it outside of class? I imagine I give her the creeps and feel maybe I should remove myself from the situation. Seeing I have really zero percent shot with her now.
whichwayisup Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 OG, you never did have a shot at her. Sorry to burst your bubble. Actually I'm not. it's good you're actually seeing there is no potiental for anything to happen. No friendship, nothing. Just do your school work and be done with this. It's become quite an obsession for you...Seems it's on your mind way too much and that energy is being totally wasted on someone who isn't into you at all. I thought you said you were GIVING her some tickets, not actually asking her out, to take her to a game!
Kelemort Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 Didn't this situation already blow up when she more or less told you it couldn't happen and she wasn't interested - and she even had the Dean involved in this situation or something? I thought you were going to stop persisting - yet now you open up with tickets? It's a miracle this woman hasn't had you removed from her classroom yet. The patience and cajones on that woman. You think she's attractive - but you really don't know anything about her. You've seen her in a classroom. But that's it. You've allowed an obsession to take you way too far. Don't contact her again. Go to your last few classes. Then be done with it. Never speak to her again.
one goal's mother Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 Don't worry, honey. I'll take you to the psychiatrist tomorrow.
Author one goal Posted April 29, 2011 Author Posted April 29, 2011 Didn't this situation already blow up when she more or less told you it couldn't happen and she wasn't interested - and she even had the Dean involved in this situation or something? I thought you were going to stop persisting - yet now you open up with tickets? It's a miracle this woman hasn't had you removed from her classroom yet. The patience and cajones on that woman. You think she's attractive - but you really don't know anything about her. You've seen her in a classroom. But that's it. You've allowed an obsession to take you way too far. Don't contact her again. Go to your last few classes. Then be done with it. Never speak to her again. That's why I try talking to her to get to know her better, and know her outside of class better. Maybe I would like her personality then. However I think the damage has been done. I really don't want to go to class now because I know she hates me.
TaraMaiden Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 Don't mind me, just farming post count Here let me help.... Answer me damn you, and take me to the fair!!! Don't worry' date=' honey. I'll take you to the psychiatrist tomorrow.[/quote'] One-way trip, is it...? .....I really don't want to go to class now because I know she hates me. Sorted. Can this be the end of it? Judging by some posts you've received, she's not the only one.....
one goal's mother Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 One-way trip, is it...? Yes, it's starting to look that way.
whichwayisup Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 That's why I try talking to her to get to know her better, and know her outside of class better. Maybe I would like her personality then. However I think the damage has been done. I really don't want to go to class now because I know she hates me. Do you see IF she hates you, you've created this mess? So, don't go to class. Hand in your assignments and that's that. End of story.
Cracker Jack Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 No. What you should do is simply finish the assignment and enjoy the summer. I can't believe many weeks later you're still asking questions about this lady who isn't even thinking about you.
Author one goal Posted April 29, 2011 Author Posted April 29, 2011 No. What you should do is simply finish the assignment and enjoy the summer. I can't believe many weeks later you're still asking questions about this lady who isn't even thinking about you. Actually I'm taking a summer class. It's not on main campus though, luckily so I wont see her. I don't plan on contacting her anymore after class is over. I mean if I did then couldn't she get a restraining order, go to the police?
Cracker Jack Posted April 30, 2011 Posted April 30, 2011 Yes, that's very possible. You don't want that to happen. At least you appear to understand that it's useless to continue. Do your assignment, and just focus on your next class in the summer. That's all. No need to ask to complete it out of class or anything; don't make it more complicated than it needs to be, please.
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