whoknowswhattodo Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 I'm still missing her more everyday and acting like I don't care unless I'm speaking with my family. She got back with her ex that is a year younger then her he's 19 because she said he changed and she had to make sure she was making the right decision. Because she never really got over him. That was 16 days ago but I just found out she did get back with her ex. I don't think he has really changed any in one year espeically being so young. I think he just wants a piece of as*, what do yall think? I'm just praying she comes back to me when that relationship blows up like it has for the last 2 times for them. I would like your opinions? Thanks
VJohnson32 Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 "Because she never really got over him" That says it all, her feelings are with her ex and you were unfortunately just a reboundy. Thats just my opinion ... dont see her coming back if she never felt anything for you.
stephmichelle Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 Would you really be willing to take her back after this? If you two WERE to get back together, I would always be worried she could just do it again. It sounds like the whole time she was with you, she was still thinking about him, and just using you to help get over him. As a girl, I absolutely hate being alone - it sounds like she just wanted comfort for the time being until she had another chance to go back to him, and you were her comfort. But, every person is different. I would start NC if you haven't already and make her miss you, make her realize what she had with YOU and that she no longer has it while being with him. If for some reason she does want to come back later, she needs to reasure you that that'll never happen again and she's completely done with that other guy this time. But hopefully after enough time, you'll realize she isn't worth it and already have moved on.
Author whoknowswhattodo Posted April 29, 2011 Author Posted April 29, 2011 Would you really be willing to take her back after this? If you two WERE to get back together, I would always be worried she could just do it again. It sounds like the whole time she was with you, she was still thinking about him, and just using you to help get over him. As a girl, I absolutely hate being alone - it sounds like she just wanted comfort for the time being until she had another chance to go back to him, and you were her comfort. But, every person is different. I would start NC if you haven't already and make her miss you, make her realize what she had with YOU and that she no longer has it while being with him. If for some reason she does want to come back later, she needs to reasure you that that'll never happen again and she's completely done with that other guy this time. But hopefully after enough time, you'll realize she isn't worth it and already have moved on. Nc has been on for 17 days now and I know she is looking for a job and trying to go to college as to where I payed for everything in the past. Money is no object for me because I've worked very hard to be able to live this kinda life and I have great employee that work at my companys. If she would come back I wouldn't do the same things I did in the past like helping her with money. Unless we were married and yes there would be a pre-nup. I would take her back because I love her and I am not a person who easily falls in love. You said it with "make her miss you" I was wondering if this might help her miss me more and realize she fu*ked up the best and only secure thing she had in her life. Ladies what are your thoughts?
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