Sassygirl2 Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 I just talked to my ex-bf, who walked out on me about 12 days ago, that "It's over". He said that he "cared" for me and still "had feelings" for me but that it wasn't enough to continue the relationship. He said over the last several months of our year long relationship.....I have been more angry/stressed and taking my problems and issues out on him. I see that. It escalated into two big fights and that's when he said, "See ya later!" He said his ex-wife put him through that for many years and he wouldn't do it again. I told him that I don't understand why he didn't sit me down and talk to me about this problem WAY before it escalated into a full blown melt down that I had.......he thought he DID. I told him that if he would have told me that he was going to leave if I didn't get some help with my stress and anger that maybe I would have done something about it earlier. I know, that's probably not true but I would like to think I would have. I know that I took on too much this year in regards to my life. I have many things going on and lots of pressure coming from work, school, kids, and I let the stress take over. I didn't get help when I should have long ago. I am doing it now because one of the best things that happened to me in my life just walked out because of it.
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