Sweet_T Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 I was doing so well, and then a wk later he calls. I fed right into it and now Im back at the drawing board. I feel stupid! I don't know if I was expecting something to be different after only 1wk but now Im right back where I started...heartbroken and wanting answers! As bad and as hard as it is... I guess I have to move on. I've been holding on and staying to myself (no rebounds) but it's not worth it for me anymore. I don't know what Im expecting by posting this thread, but I really needed to get that out
reallyconfused2542 Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 what made the call go wrong and were you the dumper or dumpee?
Author Sweet_T Posted April 28, 2011 Author Posted April 28, 2011 Dumpee... I don't know what happened. He wants to try to be friends (more like friends with benefits) and after being together for 5 yrs, that ain't gonna work!
hurtex Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 wow ugh it's so hard. I don't know if reading all of this is helping me or hurting me I really just want to believe he's going to come back That really sucks for you. I'm so sorry. Maybe if you continue to ignore he'll realize he wants the whole deal. That's probably not good advice You should probably move on to someone who will treat you better. I'm not good at listening to that though.
Author Sweet_T Posted April 28, 2011 Author Posted April 28, 2011 Its so hard, because I am still in love with him and I want to be with him. But he left me for his ex and I can't forgive him, especially when he doesn't want to come back to me! I know what I need to do, but it is soooooooooo much easier said than done. And I was doing so good with the NC and then I just threw all of that hard work (and it is VERY hard) away.
Fufu Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 Seek NC and you will be fine Be with a man that is readily to choose you actively and to be committed to you.
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