iceknite Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 There's this girl I was working with for about 4-5 months, I quit almost 2 months ago to pursue my career in mining(just a part time job to pay for school) and she was pretty sad that I had to leave even though I told her I'd drop in once in a while and still keep in touch, and I do drop by at work about once a week and we text each other once in a while too. She's been in this on and off relationship for a couple years now and I personnally think the guy is a scum bag and even though she admits that he's an a-hole[COLOR=#fa7777] [/COLOR]when they're around other people, she says he's different when they're alone, but she's told me stories that are probably too inappropriate to post here but let's just say it was borderline sexual assault. Now I really like this girl and have for a couple months now, but I don't want to ask her out or make a move while she's still with the other guy. I'm pretty sure she feels the same way as I do. Just last week we went on a to trip Montreal with my cousin and his girlfriend to watch a concert and hockey game. It went really well and she had a great time, we even slept in the same bed for the two nights we were there and throughout the night she would slowly inch over towards my side until eventually our arms or feet would slightly touch and even once we woke up she was in no rush to move, so I take that as a good sign. Once we got back in town I dropped off my cousin first and took about 5-10 minutes to say bye while she was in the car alone. When I dropped her off and said bye, she looked as though she had been crying. I assume this was because she's conflicted between me and her current boyfriend and I understand why she's not gonna just dump him for me just like that cause she obviously still has feelings for him but to me it seems fairly obvious that she also has feelings for me. So I guess my question is what can I do or say to win her over? I don't want to seem cocky or anything, but I think I'd be ten times the boyfriend he is and she probably realizes this, especially after spending the weekend together. I did all the right things without taking things too fast cause I don't want to start a potential relationship while she's still with the other guy, but I don't want to wait forever either. I've never directly told her that I like her but the signs have been pretty obvious. I guess actually telling her that I like her and would like to have a relationship together might speed things up but I'm not sure if that's the best course of action. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks.
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