arbrne_vet Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 Brief history... Proposed back October 2nd. things were great for two weeks, then she shut down. distanced herself from me emotionally, and physically. stopped coming by my house. made up all kinds of excuses as to why she distance herself from me, and why she does not come by anymore. i stayed in because before the proposal, i thought this was the woman for me. it was what all relationships should have been... i did everything for her to try to "win" her back. everything. i told her that i just wanted "us" back. never did i ever hear her say that. i told her i wanted to make this work, never did i hear her say that. i felt i was just being taken advantage of for the past 6 months. i am not 100% sure, but i believe she is or was or have been interested in someone else. that is why she distant herself from me, and picked a fight about every little stupid thing. about a month or so after my proposal, i found she was texting some guy. i asked if she informed him she was engaged, and she said no. i am not sure if she stopped, but she said she did. so, after 6 months of being beaten down daily, i gave up, and went NC. i deleted her off my facebook, deleted her number out of my phone. told her i was done. then of course she started in on how i have been horrible to her. i have been kissing her but for 6 months, afraid to make her mad, afraid i would loose whatever little bit of her i had left. so, i threw in the towel. but...... she still text me. no, "i am sorry" no "i have been horrible to you". nothing of remorse on her part. just seems as if she is just trying to suck me into some conversation. nothing about making this work, or anything close to that. what the heck is she doing??????????
Author arbrne_vet Posted April 28, 2011 Author Posted April 28, 2011 now.... she wants to talk. i am not holding my breath
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