Kristie16 Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 He broke up with me nearly four weeks ago, it's been 23 days no contact. I blocked him on Facebook and I can go for longer stretches during the day without letting him creep into my thoughts. I honestly do thing he's fading and I'm getting over him. But I also worry that I'm trying to fool myself. I'm going to see him at the wedding of a mutual friend in July. It's the girl we met through and I'm a bridesmaid, so I, of course, have to go. They're good friends, too, and I imagine he'll be there. I do think about seeing him. I know we'll be civil and probably catch up. But I guess it's hard for me to be completely no contact and get over him when I know in the back of my mind, I WILL see him again in the near future. I wonder if I'm just faking doing well because I'm secretly holding out hope the wedding will reconnect us? Sometimes when I really stop and examine my thoughts and feelings, I think that. Other times, I do think I'm really getting over him, and just want that opportunity that all dumpees want — to see him after a few months when I'm happy, looking good and have exciting things going on in my life. Anybody been in a similar situation?
reallyconfused2542 Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 i think all of us who haven't healed or moved on yet are...
Fufu Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 If you are still thinking this way, you have not exactly get over him. Just be yourself, don't hope for anything. Just enjoy the wedding.
nana841121 Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 Yes,i have been in the similar situation, when i felt better, ex called to meet. and i accepted,i don't really want him back, just want to present the better me in front of him. a futive trial to compensate the emotional lost, i guess.
hurtex Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 I am very much in the same position. I definitely know that I am not over him, however I know I need to start working on it. My only problem is that he has not committed to a definite no yet. We are in the "I need space" mode. All I can say is what everyone says to me. Hopefully in time you will continue to think of him less and less. Hopefully you will be secure and gorgeous at the wedding and in a place to feel comfortable with seeing him. Good luck!
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