otherfish Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 ....on a scale of 1-10 of what you bring to a relationship! Consider it all.....affection, sensitivity, honesty, maturity, communication, listening, talking, decision-making, anger, controlling, humor, commitment, stubborness, truthful, complimentary, selfish, sex, patience, drama, spiritual, understanding, love, etc, etc, etc..... I give myself an 8! Love, affection, sensitivity I rate very high but lack in communication, stubborness.
TaraMaiden Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 ....on a scale of 1-10 of what you bring to a relationship! Consider it all.....affection, sensitivity, honesty, maturity, communication, listening, talking, decision-making, Yes... anger, Only in response to anger, and then rarely... controlling, Honestly? no. humor, commitment, In spades stubborness, Possibly at one time, but I've mellowed.... truthful, complimentary, Yup, I do that.... selfish, no, I don't think so.... sex, yes, but as you go round the block a few times, other things matter much, much more. patience, Now this IS an acquired skill...but I'm leaps and bounds better than I was... drama, That's past us. We don't do drama any more... god, it's too much like hard work...! spiritual, Can't deny it - it's played a huge part.. understanding, yeah. It scares him that I do that.... love, More than I can actually describe... etc, etc, etc..... In the box under the bed.... I give myself an 8! Love, affection, sensitivity I rate very high but lack in communication, stubborness. Don't worry. It comes with age, experience and parenthood. And Time.
Eve Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 ....on a scale of 1-10 of what you bring to a relationship! Consider it all.....affection, sensitivity, honesty, maturity, communication, listening, talking, decision-making, anger, controlling, humor, commitment, stubborness, truthful, complimentary, selfish, sex, patience, drama, spiritual, understanding, love, etc, etc, etc..... I give myself an 8! Love, affection, sensitivity I rate very high but lack in communication, stubborness. H'mm.. what I bring to a relationship? Hubby gives me a 10.. he is happy. He just loves that I 'get him' and that I value honesty. I think I give my best to those who I care about and can tolerate those who I dislike enough that they don't effect my core relationships... so would give myself an 8, with two spaces for continued learning. I am not a selfish person at all. In real life my strongest points are - intuitiveness and kindness. Main weakness - I am very context specific in my interests... but really I am ok with this. I know what I like and what I don't like! Take care, Eve x
Eeyore79 Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 Consider it all.....affection, sensitivity, honesty, maturity, communication, listening, talking, decision-making, anger, controlling, humor, commitment, stubborness, truthful, complimentary, selfish, sex, patience, drama, spiritual, understanding, love, etc, etc, etc..... Your value depends on the priorities of the person who is assessing you. There are some factors which are important to me but wouldn't be important to other women, and vice versa. It's also important how your good and bad points contrast or clash with the other person's. I think I am reasonably loving, honest, fun, able to talk and resolve conflict calmly, and willing to please in bed. On the down side I am untidy, shy, sometimes grumpy, and I am frequently a smart ass The right guy for me is one who appreciates my unique positive aspects and has positive aspects of his own which counter my bad ones! My boyfriend is a neat freak, and he is simply perfect for an untidy gremlin like me who needs to be bullied into doing housework
PegNosePete Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 10 to the right person. 0 to the wrong one. This (like beauty) is in the eye of the beholder.
nana841121 Posted May 3, 2011 Posted May 3, 2011 I give myself 5 points. Here is the pros and cons Pros: considerate, generous, sex Cons: lack of communication, don't know how to express my anger i don;t know how to handle the confrontation and awkward situation
GrayClouds Posted May 4, 2011 Posted May 4, 2011 Possibly at one time, but I've mellowed.... Hopefully you have not mellowed too much, your righteous stubbernous is one of your best qualities, and besides I personally know better it has been at least 2 times.
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