HappyPanda Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 For those of you who remember the few posts Ive made about moving in with my boyfriend skip ahead to the last few paragraphs... For the newb's, heres the back story. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. I love him very much. We both live in the same city... From day one that we've been dating, Ive let him know that I was in the process of saving money to move to NYC. For many months, he kept pretty mum about it... until recently. **CURRENT** We finally had the talk. He told me that he doesnt want to leave me, and that if I wanted him to, he would move with me... And I said I didnt want to be without him... So, we more or less decided that he would be moving with me... However, due to his work responsibilities, my (our) move date would be pushed back to December, to accommodate him. I wont lie, the thought of moving to another city with him, away from all of our friends etc... scares the ISH OUTTA ME! However, the alternative of NOT being with him, scares me more... Im not ALWAYS anxious about it... I do get excited but there seems to always be a shred of doubt... lingering. This apprehension is making me feel really guilty... like I shouldnt be feeling this way... Like Im a terrible girlfriend. Is this normal? For those of you who have moved in with your SO... did you at any point feel this conflicted??
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