jamesayer Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 I have treated my girlfriend so bad and always tried to control her and made her cry now she is gone.(btw I am 21 and she is 18) One night she told me she was busy with a lot of homework for school , and that I couldn't come over that night , but I could tomorrow , and I kept demanding that I was coming over.I told her I am coming. and she said not tonight Well then I messaged her best friend on Facebook (I have never met her friend before but I just knew her from my girlfriend telling me about her! ).well I told told her friend that me and my girlfriend were no longer together and I told her friend that my girlfriend was immature , not My type , and all this other stuff.and then my girlfriends friend told her what I said . My girlfriend asked me if I meant it when I said that she was not my type and that she was immature then I told her kinda. Well then I asked my girlfriend is she would workout things with me , and she told me she needed to think about things first , and well the next day she told me she was willing to work things out and I told her idkk if I want to.. and she told me well then that's a no and I said its a I don't know and she said I need to know if you want to work things out by tomorrow , and well I never gave her an answer and I told her the only thing I wanted to work out between us was being friends. I then asked her if we could be hookup buddies but not date and she said no and then she said she wanted a boyfriend not a sex buddy and she said go find another girl to be your sex buddy then I said but your better because you know how to use your tongue and I told her I would make being sex buddies worth her while she said I don't know what I ever saw in you. and then I wrote her back , and now she is not texting me anymore I think she is gone.why did I take her for granted? she was a great girl beautiful, smart and funny but I wanted a slutty girl and asked one out.now when it's too late I see that I really didn't want a slutty girl also my girlfriend said she wasn't ready to have sex but I told her that's the only way I can show you I like you and she said no but then we did it and she cried after. should I try to fix things and say hey to her cause she doesn't say hey to me.
reallyconfused2542 Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 "worth her while"? you were basically calling her a hooker. just saying....
Lorelei_Lane Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 Let her go. Let her find a man that will treat her better, and you need to learn how to treat women with respect instead of sex objects. You sound like a selfish pig.
ilovedhim Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 Wow. You sound like a real jerk. I don't know whay you were expecting by posting here but please leave her alone.
spice4life Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 Wow, leave her alone and don't get into another relationship until you've gone to therapy. Sheesh.
reallyconfused2542 Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 dude, there are gonna be some funny posts on here....
dreamingoftigers Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 Go to the library or a bookstore and read some books on having a healthy relationship. As well as how women like to be treated. You are currently lacking some of these skills and it will dog you until you find out how to do it properly. A relationship and a girlfriend are not toys for you to throw away and demand things from as you please. I hope that you look into these things and become one of those decent guys that did. Let this girl go, having sex with her before she was ready really hurt her and you should 100% apologize for all of your stupid, jackass behaviours and then leave her alone. You are not ready to be her or anyone else's boyfriend until you learn about shaming and how you don't do it in a relationship. Good luck.
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