UBFeelinMe Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 Ok i have been pissed about this for the last week. Thursday night i went on a date with this girl and i was pretty excited about it. I had prepared myself perfectly in every way. Long story short she ended up flirting with another guy on the phone for five minutes in the.car on the way there. I got pissed and expressed it during a conversation about dating we had in which i said that women never turn down dates because they love the attention. I didnt really believe this but i had to express myself while keeping my cool. I really wasnt though as i could tell the tension between us had made the whole night akward. Now based upon her status updatesi suspect that shes playing it off like i rejected her...as if shes the one who.needs sympathy. Am i wrong for expecting a certain level of respect...even if she didnt think it was a date? She knew i really liked her
Jazzari Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 Regardless if it was a date or not, I think it's rude to spend 5 minutes on the phone when you are with someone else.
Author UBFeelinMe Posted April 28, 2011 Author Posted April 28, 2011 Id also like to.mention that i paid for the night in advance to show my intentions.
Author UBFeelinMe Posted April 28, 2011 Author Posted April 28, 2011 Regardless if it was a date or not, I think it's rude to spend 5 minutes on the phone when you are with someone else. Thats what im saying! And its worse that she was literally flirting with another dude. I should have dropped her ass on the side of the road with our tickets and told her to have her boy pick her up and go with him instead. Are there a lot of women like this or do i just pick the wrong ones?
collegeguy_24 Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 You have every right to be pissed, but think of this way now you don't have to call her again and give her a second date. Now you can go date someone else.
lolo1234 Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 Yeah that's just messed up. I don't know what to make of her FB post. Maybe she was trying to make someone else feel bad for her. Which is very lame
Nexus One Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 Regardless if it was a date or not, I think it's rude to spend 5 minutes on the phone when you are with someone else. Not to mention she flirted with another guy while talking on the phone on their way to their date. I'm trying to visualize what I would do in that situation and to be quite honest, it's not entirely impossible that I would have hit the breaks hard, told her to get the f*ck out of the car, drive off with spinning and smoking tires for dramatic effect and go NC. She would have to call a cab or friends or walk home. I would check on her if she got home safely via a proxy acquaintance, but that's about it. I know that's probably not the most responsible thing to do, but then again I feel that girl needs a lesson.
collegeguy_24 Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 Not to mention she flirted with another guy while talking on the phone on their way to their date. I'm trying to visualize what I would do in that situation and to be quite honest, it's not entirely impossible that I would have hit the breaks hard, told her to get the f*ck out of the car, drive off with spinning and smoking tires for dramatic effect and go NC. She would have to call a cab or friends or walk home. I would check on her if she got home safely via a proxy acquaintance, but that's about it. I know that's probably not the most responsible thing to do, but then again I feel that girl needs a lesson. I would love to see that on youtube or something:laugh:
rocketboy9 Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 This is very disrespectful. You should have dumped her out on the side of the road and told her to call the guy she was talking to come and get her. I had a similar experience. I was at a woman's house I was dating and the phone rang. She went out on the deck and spent like the next 10 minutes flirting with him. I became very angry so walked out. I left her butt there. Than I got the calls - what happened, are you mad, whats wrong, blah, blah. I didnt speak to her again for like a week after that. Its VERY disrespectful, its right up there with txting on a date. Neither of which I will tolerate.
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