Saphira Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 How do you men feel about being asked out on a date? There is this guy i have been talking too for a few weeks. we flirt and joke around and have nice conversations. Although i think if i wait for him to finally work up the nerve to ask ME out then it would take forever. So you men out there, how do you feel when a women asks you out on a date? Are you okay with her taking the initiative?
Lilmisus Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 I just had a thread like this going recently Though many will probably give you new answers, you can look at what they said on that thread as well.
SFF Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 if he is quiet and very nice and listens he probably isnt sure how to ask you so id say yes ask him out. id love if a girl showed me some kind of attention
Author Saphira Posted April 28, 2011 Author Posted April 28, 2011 I just had a thread like this going recently Though many will probably give you new answers, you can look at what they said on that thread as well. Thanks i will definitely look at it
Author Saphira Posted April 28, 2011 Author Posted April 28, 2011 if he is quiet and very nice and listens he probably isnt sure how to ask you so id say yes ask him out. id love if a girl showed me some kind of attention he isnt very quiet lol but he is nice. We use to know each other in middle school. but haven't talked or seen each other since 7th grade. and about a month ago he found me on facebook and we started talking and exchanged numbers. Our conversations are always flirty and i get the impression that he likes me. So i was thinking about just going for it. Thanks for the advice.
patagonia Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 go for it. I'm a nice shy guy and a woman approached me a few weeks ago. I would have never done it. You'll be glad you did
musemaj11 Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 These days the question of who should ask is not a matter of gender. Its a matter of confidence. The one with more confidence should ask. In the past, men were the ones who asked because men were the ones with the money and the car. It would be weird for a woman to ask a guy out when she didnt even have a penny.
Lilmisus Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 I think the one is more succesful(earns more money, has better education) should do the asking. What if the one who is more successful is also the one who is more shy and less confident, therefore, not prepared to ask the other one out? There are a few things to consider when you decide "who asks who?" Number one thing being confidence. Though I've made the decision not to ask guys out, I feel that it's to each their own. I don't feel comfortable doing it, but if you feel comfortable asking him out, and if you feel that he will say yes, then I say you have nothing to lose and I think you should just do it. After all, he's showing positive signs!
Author Saphira Posted April 28, 2011 Author Posted April 28, 2011 These days the question of who should ask is not a matter of gender. Its a matter of confidence. The one with more confidence should ask. In the past, men were the ones who asked because men were the ones with the money and the car. It would be weird for a woman to ask a guy out when she didnt even have a penny. Thats true. and we both have jobs (so i have pennys :lmao:) and if i ask then of course im paying. it would be horrible to be like. "hey would you like to go out? ok dont forget your wallet!!! :lmao::lmao:
Author Saphira Posted April 28, 2011 Author Posted April 28, 2011 I asked my ex boyfriend out on a date because he was such a nerd and someone had to make the move.. but yeah the world is changing so I don't think men care so much about it anymore. Thats true the world is different. Im going to give it a shot today i think =]
Ross MwcFan Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 I prefer it if the woman asked, because then at least you'd know that she must definatley be interested.
Author Saphira Posted April 28, 2011 Author Posted April 28, 2011 I prefer it if the woman asked, because then at least you'd know that she must definatley be interested. haha i guess that's true. I wouldn't ask if i wasn't interested! Thanks
EasyHeart Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 There's nothing "wrong" with a woman asking a man on a date, but most men (at least the ones who don't hang out on LS) prefer to do the chasing.
molimo140 Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 My current relationship started by me being asked out by my girlfriend. I had asked her out months prior and was turned down, though, so I'm not sure if that makes any kind of difference. Either way, as a guy I certainly do not mind.
musemaj11 Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 I like it when a woman asks me out only if I like her, too. Otherwise I dont like it.
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