Dims85 Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 So my ex just text me asking if I still had anything of hers to give her. We met a week after our breakup and exchanged stuff. I might have a pic or 2 that she wants back since she has no copies of pics from her childhood (she gave me some a while back) she recently texted me on easter and I didn't respond and I guess she also text my mom Saturday asking how she was and saying she missed her. Timing is kind of weird, I know her best friend just got engaged over the weekend....maybe she is thinking of me again I dunno. I don't want to break NC as I have been doing pretty good lately. Its been over a month since the breakup, What should I do?? Is this just a dumb breadcrumb? Any advice would be appreciated, Thanks everyone
momentforlife Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 do you want to be with her still? if your happier with out her move on but if you think there aspects of your old relationshp that you and your ex are willing to work on than dont hold back, DONT BE NEEDY EITHER just answer her, shes making an excuses to talk to you
Author Dims85 Posted April 28, 2011 Author Posted April 28, 2011 do you want to be with her still? if your happier with out her move on but if you think there aspects of your old relationshp that you and your ex are willing to work on than dont hold back, DONT BE NEEDY EITHER just answer her, shes making an excuses to talk to you Yes I still want to be with her but I'm hesitant to start talking to her again for the potential let down that will ensue. she left me saying she didnt have time and needed to take care of her stuff right now. We had been together for 6 1/2 years and engaged. I was willing to work on things, we had several of those talks post breakup and her answer was always the same "right now isn;t the right time, I need to take care of my stuff". I kinda feel like after the time we spent together she can do better than asking if I have anything for her if she really wants to talk, I mean we aren't in highschool we are adults she can make a better effort. I'm leaning towards ignoring the text until she can come up with something with some more substance and effort to it. Your opinions are greatly appreciated
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