whoknowswhattodo Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 Well my ex thinks I'm snooping on her fb. I can't believe this sh*t. She might be calling me tonight but idk. I do miss her very much but I'm not a stalker. What should I do if she should call. I know not to answer on the first call. What if she leaves a voice mail to call her back? I think if she wanted to talk to me that bad she should work for it. That would be a way to show her That I don't have to put up with her sh*t anymore. How many times should she call before I answer if so? I just can't believe she thinks I would be a stalker!!! Wtf!!! Should I just keep nc and make her think? Please let me know your thoughts because I'm sure she is just going to try to belittle me. My friend said to answer and just talk strong and asserative if she does call but on at least the third call. Is he right? Let me know guys, thanks
ShoeGurl1973 Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 Does she mean by stalking as in looking at her FB page or does she think you have her password and are loggin in? Provided you have done neither (even if you did look at it, who gives a f***) why would you purposely pick up the phone so you an be yelled at? Heck no don't answer her, or call her back. KEEP NC!!!!! Trust me on this - I learned it this weekend, no matter how aggressive you are or adamant you are, they will find a way to sneak in the phrase "its over" AGAIN, like you needed to be told and you will no doubt feel as if you were dumped a second time. Nothing good will become of it.
ilovedhim Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 Keep NC - do not answer. You'll just end up hurt all over again. Why does she think you're a stalker? And how do you know she's going to call?
Author whoknowswhattodo Posted April 27, 2011 Author Posted April 27, 2011 Does she mean by stalking as in looking at her FB page or does she think you have her password and are loggin in? Provided you have done neither (even if you did look at it, who gives a f***) why would you purposely pick up the phone so you an be yelled at? Heck no don't answer her, or call her back. KEEP NC!!!!! Trust me on this - I learned it this weekend, no matter how aggressive you are or adamant you are, they will find a way to sneak in the phrase "its over" AGAIN, like you needed to be told and you will no doubt feel as if you were dumped a second time. Nothing good will become of it. Her mother contacted me and I told her about the rumors I had heard that her ex that she dumped me for was saying. I used what all of you have told me and kept it short and didn't give all the information I knew so her mom would investigate. When she did the rumors were correct that she had been sending him messages and I basically told her that its not my problem she broke up with me and maybe in the future we would get back together but I was moving on. So I guess my ex thinks I'm looking on her fb but she blocked me and I don't want to look at it anyway. I can't help that the guy she dumped me for is an as*hole and is talking sh*t about her. Its out of my control and I don't want him to be able to use me as a way for them to get closer together. His colors will show one day and that might make it longer for them to come out. He is just going to use her and everyone tells me to relax that it won't last long for them. I do want her back one day but to appreciate me for how great I would be for her. She lost respect for me and I want a way to get it back so this might be a good thing how I handle this. Let me know what you think?
ilovedhim Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 Why would you want her back? She sounds mean. The best way to get respect back is to NC. Just ignore her.
Author whoknowswhattodo Posted April 27, 2011 Author Posted April 27, 2011 Why would you want her back? She sounds mean. The best way to get respect back is to NC. Just ignore her. Thanks everyone. If she calls I will keep nc and if anyone from her family trys to. I will keep nc with them too. I hope this will open her eyes that I'm not here to be pushed around and they will figure that boy out before to long. I guess he's one of those control guys that is overbearing. I know I was to nice and should of had more backbone and if we ever get back together I will. I am letting go for now. I can't control her and her feelings. Btw she's young and can act immature. When she opens her eyes she will hopefully see where it is best for her.
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