Adswillant Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 Ok, so I've taken a big chance and asked a friend out for a date. Wasn't expecting a yes but I got a 'yes' and whats best described as an impersonation of a seal clapping its paws when its about to get fed fish. Now my dilemma, should I keep it as normal hangout or do it as a proper date type thing. Eg, say an ice cream parlour followed by bowling or dinner by the river followed by a light stroll to night time mini golf. sorta want to keep it light and breezy but not like a normal hang out. Any ideas on how to make it seem more like a date? We recently went away together and she loved it when i took her to a nice restaurant for dinner. She's aware its a date and not just a hang out so should i go with the 2nd option thats a little more romantic? Considering we flirt a lot and walk about like a couple most times, eg holding hands i'm also not sure how to adjust my body language to also suggest it's not just a normal hang out.
Empath Posted April 28, 2011 Posted April 28, 2011 My advice would be to focus on making the setting memorable but not to frame the evening in an overly romantic way. Give yourself a scenario where there is plenty of room to "go with the flow". A lovely, picturesque walk will give you both a beautiful and lasting memory, but at the same time will not pressure either of you into being something which may take time getting used to. Does that make sense?
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