oscar99 Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 So me and my boyfriend of 7 months have decided to play a little game: Next time we are alone together, he is gonna play hard to get and i have to do everything in my power to try and seduce him without actually touching him. Now he has a very strong will power when he puts his mind to it and assures me that i wont win, but im determined to prove him wrong. usually we cant keep our hands off of each other....so does anyone have any suggestions at to what i can do that would give me an edge to this game? as i am very much determined to win and am willing to do whatever it takes sincerly, a girl too stubborn to loose
youngskywalker Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 My g/f and I play that game a lot. I lose every time.
TaraMaiden Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 See, that's where you're wrong. It actually takes very little visual stimulation to give a guy a hard-on. Men can be ready for sex, in seconds. They are easily physically aroused, and in fact, I would say 65% of sexual encounters are engineered or initiated by men. If the object of their desire is also someone they have deep affection for, that is even better.... Bonus! It's actually more challenging to not respond to that rising excitement or stimulus. But it's part of the fun, to try..... OP, I would go see him wearing nothing but a smart coat, and nothing but sexy underwear underneath. Let him know in a subtle way that you are virtually naked, and when you get him somewhere private, do some lap dancing. Don't let him lay a finger on you. He'll be putty in your hands, in no time.......!! Aaah.... memories....!
Ross MwcFan Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 God I wish I was able to play these sort of games.
linwood Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 Give him a lapdance, make him sit on his hands and move your body close enough for him to smell your skin. Get your mouth close enough to his so he can feel your breath on his lips but withhold the kiss. Slowly strip for him, touch yourself. Get close enough for him to feel your breath where it really counts and withhold any contact. Do this for 4 or 5 songs after teasing and flirting with him all day. Taramaiden, You are undoubtedly correct about a mans visual stimulation in this case but as a man gets older he needs more than just the sight of a pretty body to gain erection. Personally at my age (44) I need physical stimulation of some sort and/or a woman getting into my head emotionally. I can`t even recall the last time I got erect from purely visual stimulation. Don`t get me wrong I enjoy the sight of an attractive woman but the mere sight of one doesn`t set me off sexually as it did in my 20's.
kiss_andmakeup Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 I'd say 85% is probably more accurate. You know this from all that first hand experience you have with intimacy & the opposite sex, right? You can do it OP! Initiation of sex is right around 50/50 in my relationship and like Tara said it doesn't take much to arouse a guy.
TaraMaiden Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 ..... Taramaiden, You are undoubtedly correct about a mans visual stimulation in this case but as a man gets older he needs more than just the sight of a pretty body to gain erection. Personally at my age (44) I need physical stimulation of some sort and/or a woman getting into my head emotionally. I can`t even recall the last time I got erect from purely visual stimulation. Don`t get me wrong I enjoy the sight of an attractive woman but the mere sight of one doesn`t set me off sexually as it did in my 20's. I figure this is around how old these guys are. They've only been together 7 months.... so first of all, things are fresh. Secondly, the OP comes across as being quite young - well, certainly younger than you or me (54).... so while I appreciate perception and stimulus may change, I don't think I was inaccurate, here. Thanks for the feedback!
kiss_andmakeup Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 No, I know that from what I see both women and men write. And based on TV-shows and movies, in movies it's always the guy who initiates sex. It's also common knowledge, some might say it's a stereotype but alot of stereotypes have some truth in them. Yes, TV and movies are excellent sources of factual information.
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