OCCDAVE Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 Well im talking to amy and convo is going well and smooth.i then made a bone headed move and said something i shouldnt.i was so hows your son still practicing his baseball skills.she said hes good being a big boy like he is.well i decided to say maybe if its cool with you i can help him on baseball.her reply yaa i dont bring guys near my son dont want him being confused .i felt salty so i back tracked and said no i mean if we work in time grrr.
Survivor12 Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 The fact that she is a responsible mom who is wise enough to know that it's best to wait before introducing you to her children does not mean that she doesn't appreciate the fact that you showed interest. Don't worry...I think that you may just have earned yourself some xtra points!
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 27, 2011 Author Posted April 27, 2011 I hope you end up being right about that.ill admit i felt i messed things up and may have scared her away
Lilmisus Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 I don't think you have anything to worry about. I once made a comment to a young father of two little girls who was trying to hit on me, asking what he looked for in a girl (since he kept asking me questions about what I looked for in a guy, wouldn't stop), and apart of it was "someone nice? Who could end up being a role model for your daughters?" and he got immediately defensive though I didn't mean anything by it at all, I was just keeping conversation going. He said basically what she said to you, but I told him that I understood and that that was the mature and great parent thing to do, since you don't want to bring dozens of people around your kids if you don't know if they'll stay in your life or not. He immediately agreed and said that he was glad I understood and made some flirty comment to me, but I forget what he said. So, if it's brought up again, just tell her how you respect her decision, and tell her that she's making an awesome choice by not introducing you to her son too soon, but that you hope that if you guys get more serious, that you hope that you can meet him, but not for a long while (until she's ready).
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 27, 2011 Author Posted April 27, 2011 Im not sure momo but come friday im expecting hand holding and a kiss.i think if those backfire this isnt going anywhere
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