Mesaboog Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 It's been less than two weeks since I started ignoring my ex. She sent a text asking if I'm even alive. Then followed with about 15 more texts. Should I break contact to, ya know, let her know I'm not dead? Here's a little background http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t274246/
fun2bewith Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 I have also read your other post... She knows you are not dead and why do you worry what she might think? She is only worried that she has lost you and that she will not get any attention from you... She is young, once you start retuning her text messages, she might play a reverse game on you...then you might be the one texting her asking if she is still alive... You clearly still have feelings for her...I believe that you can only break NC only when you have absolutly no more feelings for her...and skrew that! She want to have the benifits of being your friend, what do you get out of this deal... One day you could be friends again, but time must pass...
Fufu Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 Don't break NC, it's pointless and you won't get anything good out of it. Stick on to NC.
nana841121 Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 Or you can send her a SMS saying you are alive and you don't want to keep the contact with her like an adult.
fun2bewith Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 Or you can send her a SMS saying you are alive and you don't want to keep the contact with her like an adult. She does not act like an adult. Read his previous posts... He already wrote her a letter and explained. Should he send her a sms everytime she wants to know if he is still alive and kicking?
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