existing Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 How do you just let go of someone who dosen't love you anymore after 34 yrs. And has moved out and is having a big time without you. All your left with is a big open dead feeling inside.
fltc Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 I'm sorry for you but time will heal this. You'll get good advice from the folks here, it will help to get busy and stay busy, think about a gym membership, think about hobbies, etc. to keep your mind occupied.
Yasuandio Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 You are a poster of few words. The thread title suggests to me you saw this coming. The lenght of the relationship, and the fact the wife appears happy in a new arrangment, is not reassuring in the least. Therfore, your best bet is to grieve and move towards acceptance. There are some "last resort" stratigies you can apply in this instance. Considering the cucumstances, I would have her served. If there is an ounce of hope, that would be a wake up call. But perhaps you are already divorced. And if you employ Last Resort techniques, you have to follow thru. Why don't you give the forum more detail about your situation? If you simply want to be done with her, and get the woman out of your head, you must immediately employ the 180 and No Contact like Now. Do not take any calls, texts, nadda. Please research these two methods on LS right now. Go to the Internet if you can't find it. Does anyone have the links?
Soxfaninfl Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 How do you just let go of someone who dosen't love you anymore after 34 yrs. And has moved out and is having a big time without you. All your left with is a big open dead feeling inside. Wow 34yrs! I'm better off not getting married for a 2nd time. I could not handle another divorce. You would think a couple that has been together over 30 years would stay together for good, but there is no guarantee even after 30 years. I feel really bad for you, and i can relate. She was my first love. My marriage only lasted 10 years, my wife said she didn't love me anymore too.
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