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theres this girl that goes to my college and i recently got told by her close freind that she realy likes me. Me and this girl have never realy spoken at college to each other before hand and we have been at the same college for a good while now.

 

the next time im out clubbing her freind bumps her into me.. we chat for a while...she tells me she realy likes me.. thinks im cute... and apolagised for being self defensive with me and she was scared of me...??? ( which i thought was strange) we make out..i ask for her number

 

so, basically for 3 weeks i have been the only one intiating conversatin via text she does however reciprocates which is positive. ive invited her out on a date which she was willing to go on and ive made out with her a fair few times since (only when out clubbing though) the impression ive got of her is shes HOT when in the nightclub with me but then goes COLD for the rest of the week untill the nightclub again

 

i just would like to know if anybodys got views to express on this situation and why she doesent seem to text me on her own iniative.. i dont know wheteher to raie the issue with her or just to stop if i maybe waisting my time?

 

thanks

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We can't read her mind. Ask her.

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Low interest, confused, or bored. None of them are good signs for you. Sorry man, it happens to every guy once in awhile. The hotter they are, the more likely you get this kind of behavior. I'm guessing she's drinking at the club?

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Low interest, confused, or bored. None of them are good signs for you. Sorry man, it happens to every guy once in awhile. The hotter they are, the more likely you get this kind of behavior. I'm guessing she's drinking at the club?

 

yeah exactly what ive thought at times, and my female friends find it strange, especially not getting in contact with me and having my number. yeah she does drink,

 

despite... the weekend just gone same thing happened again. but she did talk to me and said shes realy likes me but is realy bad at relationhsips..she also said she started talking loudly in class to try and get my attention...but now im just kind of letting this all fly by. from my experiences if your that interested enough you at least make some effort.

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Run towards her as you yell "LEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEROY JENKINS, WWWWWRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRAAAAAAAAAA"

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