Armani Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 hi guys im a bisexual 22yr old girl whos been in a relationship with a guy for 3 years (ish) but am finding his step sister more and more attractive. she is a lesbian and we get on well although she has no idea how i feel about her. i know this is totally crazy as my boyfriend would absolutely hate me if he knew and presume his sister would feel very awkward!! just dont really know how to feel about this cos i do love my bf but guess its kinda you always want what you know you cant have!! any thoughts would be appreciated! X
maysj18 Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 hi guys im a bisexual 22yr old girl whos been in a relationship with a guy for 3 years (ish) but am finding his step sister more and more attractive. she is a lesbian and we get on well although she has no idea how i feel about her. i know this is totally crazy as my boyfriend would absolutely hate me if he knew and presume his sister would feel very awkward!! just dont really know how to feel about this cos i do love my bf but guess its kinda you always want what you know you cant have!! any thoughts would be appreciated! X Well listen, that is a sticky situation and regardless of your feelings for this girl, you can't do that to his family member. If you're noticing other people though, I would suggest re-evaluating your relationship.
WillSingForFood Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 The thing is this: nothing good can come from your growing attraction to her. But, many people I'm sure have had crushes on their SOs brother/sister/friend/cousin, whomever. Just because you have a lesbian attraction towards her, doesn't mean anything at all, and shouldn't influence any decision that you could make. So, you really have a couple of options: 1. end things with him. But you cant start something with her regardless. 2. try to see her as a sister, not a lesbian that youre attracted to. 3. back off from her, and keep minimum contact. 4. try going on double dates with her and him. Have her bring a girl, and you go wit him, and try to see if that will make the attraction level decrease.
Author Armani Posted April 27, 2011 Author Posted April 27, 2011 Thanks for the advice. to be honest i knew nothing could never, at least in the near future, happen with his sister. guess only time can tell the best thing to do in terms of my realtionship with my bf.
chucksbabygurl17 Posted May 2, 2011 Posted May 2, 2011 hi guys im a bisexual 22yr old girl whos been in a relationship with a guy for 3 years (ish) but am finding his step sister more and more attractive. she is a lesbian and we get on well although she has no idea how i feel about her. i know this is totally crazy as my boyfriend would absolutely hate me if he knew and presume his sister would feel very awkward!! just dont really know how to feel about this cos i do love my bf but guess its kinda you always want what you know you cant have!! any thoughts would be appreciated! X I understand I am a bisexual 18 year old girl i been with my bf for 4 years and I was inlove with my best friend she was straight though but one day i told her how i felt n then things got seriouse with me and her we did some things when my bf was at work n he finally found out what we were doing he wasnt to happy lets just say were no longer friends anymore my point that i am trying to make is we all want what we cant have but if you really love you bf you would leave your erges go bc thats ur bf sister idk if he would like that so much but girl you do what ever you think thats best n whatever you think thats going to make u happy ok n hey maybe if you tell her she maybe feelings the same way that you feel about her:love:
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