Gypsie Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 Trying to get past a break up with my ex boyfriend Get the feeling now that he just wanted the newness of the relationship and after we were living together and things started to get real and he could see my flaws and stuff. After a few misunderstandings and arguments. He ends up dumping me out of the blue as well. I never saw it coming. Just the night before he was telling me I meant the world to him. Then this happens just the next day. I could handle he's flaws and how he was. I even changed a few things to help make our relationship easier. Still. That was not enough for him to lighten up and appreciate me more. Have been totally devastated by this. He would tell me he was not like this when we were together. Look me right in the eyes and assure me that he was not like other * * * * * * * guys I have met in the past. Feel stupid for believing in him and trusting him. Even enough to move out here to another City with him. I was even financially supporting him while he was on a Traineeship. It was getting to hard for him so he quits. Gets a higher paid full time job. Then about a month and a half later he dumps me and walks out on me. I thought I was supporting him to help our future. Not he's. I was thinking about us. That this would better us in the long run. Even when he was still getting full wage I was still paying our joint bills cause he did not have enough money to give me. My ex boyfriend lived with he's Mum and hated he's job before meeting me. Now he lives on he's own has a job he loves and gets paid more after I helped support him. He even is in a new relationship now three months after we broke up. * * * . After all I did for this guy. I get pushed aside and replaced like that. Other then this. I have gotten my life back on track as well. Everything else is going fine. Living in my own place now. Still have my job and being totally independent. Though. I did not feel like I gained anything from my relationship at all. He was the one that did mostly. I am still all alone in the same job, same pay and City we moved to and he gets more money and a new girl on top of that. When I was sending texts and stuff. Got replies to some and others ignored. Not now. All initiated by me of course. Told him a few home truths about what I thought about the break up. I was angry, hurt and heartbroken. Feel used and unappreciated. Felt like he used me to get himself set up in the City and then dumped me once things worked out. That might not be the case but do feel that. Just seems to much of a coincidence that he breaks up with me after getting more money. Hope these do not help him in the future improve. LoL. Not if he is going to end up with someone else. Heard he had about three or four girlfriends since me and it has been four months since the break up. Saw he is in a 'relationship' now on he's Facebook page. Have not looked at it since but. Cried for a week after knowing that. I have only been on one date. Turned out that guy just wanted sex. LoL. Getting back out there but it has been hard. I really thought that guy was the one. In the beginning it was great between us. There were a few changes along the way but that should have helped us become a stronger couple. Not to go our separate ways like that.
JusChill Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 You sound like a great woman ^^, I would love to find a woman like you...! LOL...well back to the topic, I think you know already that you deserve someone better. I am not sure how long you guys known each other before living with each other, but...most guys I know live on their own cause it makes their life easier if they want sex. So value yourself, learn to love yourself...find someone who love you ....and you know what? *** the ex, is NEXT babe ^^
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