hrtbroken99 Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 I was seeing a guy a while back who left for work travel. He recently returned and we have a metup a few times. He had to leave a about a week ago for a family even and said that we could meet again after he returned. It has been almost a week now and he fell off the planet and I have not heard from him. I texted him and did not hear back. I have no intentions of contacting him any further. I am just frustrated and have a good feeling that sooner or later I will hear from him. I am at the point where I am looking for something serious. I am not sure what to do? If I hear from him should I tell him what I am looking for and that communication is important? I am sick of meeting people who just disapear and reappear and act like everything is ok. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks
marigold7 Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 I think you're in a great position if you're being honest about your emotional state in terms of your relationship? with this guy. Hope you don't mind if I bring up personal experience. I was in the stupidest relationship ever that was a guy who did that thing you were describing - he would go weeks without talking to me and then text me and expect me to not be annoyed. I, unlike you, was "unable"/reluctant to give up on the relationship because he took my virginity. I had realized that I was addicted to him, a guy who was a total jerk, but I didn't feel strong enough to be "alone." Finally got out of the relationship with the help of my best friend and am now in one that's much better. Phew. As for advice...I think you give him ONE more chance. Just ONE. and that's only if he actually gets back to you within a week from now, with a solid reason why he was MIA. He then has to be in reasonable contact with you. But I think you already know what to do, regardless of what I say. I'm really impressed with your resolve to not deal with that type of jerk. Stay strong.
abcheck12 Posted April 29, 2011 Posted April 29, 2011 Try to find conversation topics, where your interests are the same or overlap. That way you will be knowledgeable about the topic and you will have more fun. Remember, if you are having fun, chan[sIZE=2]What do you do for work? - It is an introductory question. It may reveal the professional status of a person but little about his personality. So move on to another question.[/sIZE] [sIZE=2]2) Where are you from? - This reveals background. It throws better light on the person.[/sIZE] ces are they are having fun.
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