Picked up a girl Yesterday, another today...have another one...

[quietGuy13]

Hey all.

 

I've been talking or trying to. talk to girls. well, i'm from america and live in america but I'm not comfortable talking with AMericans yet. They just don't like me cause i'm quiet and i don't sound like a typical american. So i've just tried to talk to Foreign girls i meet at bus stops. (and elderly americans sometimes, those are nice to me)

 

Anyways, some months ago i met one girl we became great friends, went on a few dates. She had to leave for a while back to her country. So i kep trying to meet more, I met a few tried to speak to them but there wasn't enough time, they were just here for 1 or 2 weeks. But still i had great conversations.

 

Then i met others, they were scared of me and though i was a player. So that didn't work. Then i just gave up for a while.. cause that sucked and i felt bad. but recently i decided to try again.

 

Yesterday: Instant friend!!! WE exchanged mail and phone number. THat's one.

 

Then today i decided to try again, and INSTANT FRIEND!! today i met this beautiful sexy girl. she was so happy to meet me and we decided to be friends an keep in contact.

 

Now the thing is...it's starting to get difficult. Now i have 2 friends + the one that went back to her country.

I'm interested in all of them, they're really nice. But the one today was just so beautiful and friendly and nice to me. Well, they're all nice to me but

the one today was just really attractive too

 

Anyways, i told the one today "Let's go out to walk sometime" cause she said she liked the weather we have now and she likes walking.

 

This is not cheating or anything right? I can go out with all of them on different days right? I mean, they're not girlfriends. they're just friends.

 

I mean, i've seen Outgoing people and they have a bunch of friends and go out with them.

 

So i can do that too right?

 

As far as do i want one of those girls to be my girlfriend. Well yes but it's not gonna happen and i don't think they would like me as a BF. I'm not from their country and they're here just temporarily as students. so i don't think they want a BF. and plus they also have a bunch of friends i'm sure. Cause usually foreign girls make alot of friends in school and all.

 

Anyways,

so nothing wrong with meeting each of these 3 girls on different days and not telling them about the other girls. , right?

 

but then... they're from the same country. So then i'll have to tell them right?

 

 

PS. When i say PICKUP i just mean i got the guts to talk to and i talked to girls in the street and i got numbers and emails and we agreed to keep in contact and meet/go out. I don't mean have sex

[BiscuitXOXO]

Just have fun! Don't worry so much about this kind of stuff. Keep hanging out with all of them on alternate days. The chances of ALL three ending up liking you are slim. If you end up with even one as your girlfriend you'll be lucky. So just chill. You don't have to tell them about each other, unless you want to.

[TuffCookieX]

You're not cheating on anyone unless you both discuss being exclusive. And you don't have to tell the girls that you're dating around unless they ask - hell, last Friday I went out to a movie with one guy, and then met up with another guy at my apartment right after. Neither is my boyfriend, but if one of them asked, I would definitely say that I am multi-dating. It's not a secret.

 

By the sound of it, you're not even actually dating any of them, you just happened to get some numbers. You may decide later down the road that you like one more than the others and that you will want to settle with just that one.

[Ross MwcFan]

Congrats mate. I would never be able to do what you've done.