My BF Threatened me to stay with him or he'll show my nudes.

[torontochick01]

I know what you're thinking and I agree that was stupid. But in the moment, it felt really 'hot and spicy'.

 

Anyway, he's probably the best boyfriend I've ever had. I've been with him for 8-9 months. He treats me right, he's nice, he has never cheated on me. I've caught him telling other girls that he thought they were cute.. but I think we are past that stage. I've given him nudes for about 4 months and he hasn't shown anyone that I know of. We're in a long distance relationship, so without the sex I tried to keep him enticed by sending the nudes to give him something to look forward to.

 

I've looked up my similar situation and I feel that every other girl in my situation, their boyfriend has been cheating on them or not a good man to them. However, my boyfriend has been good to me. We talked it over today and he told me that it wasn't a real threat. It was silly of him, but I've been skeptical ever since. I DO NOT feel good about this whole thing, but my gut tells me he won't send them.

 

We fight over silly stuff, and when I broke up with him, it was because I felt that our love had no spark. That was when he threatened me. He says he did it because he was hurt and that he loved me. What do you guys think?

[b89]

i think that sadly now the pictures are his he can do what he pleases with them, and that he may send/publish them without you ever knowing. I hope for your sake he never does, but should he be a pig and do so, i hope at least you and your family/friends never see or find out. Its just one of those things that in retrospect you shouldnt have done, but thats easy for me to say. Just be cool and hope for the best, because especially if hes far away, you can ignore it in the immediate sense that its not like you'll run into him.

[Hhhh]

Where in toronto are you from?