Dims85 Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 its been a month since the breakup and my ex text me yesterday after NC of 12 days to say happy easter...I'm not a religious person and don't really celebrate easter so it was kind of weird. I didn't respond back since I didn;t want to break NC and I have been doing really good lately and not thinking about her too much. Now I feel bad today for not responding to her...kinda dumb, Maybe I am just over analyzing the situation who knows....her stupid text made me start thinking about her again and what she is doing....
ilovedhim Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 Don't break NC. it won't be worth it. What are you doing to stay strong? I'm falling apart.
Author Dims85 Posted April 25, 2011 Author Posted April 25, 2011 Honestly just going to the gym hanging with friends. Its not a cure all though so don;t expect just cause you are staying busy you wont think about your ex. the gym and getting in shape has been my best tool though, I have lost 13 lbs since my ex left me and feel better than I have the whole 6 1/2 years we were together. DO I still think about her, of course I was planning on marrying her we were engaged for 6 months. But like all LS users say its all about fixing yourself and being happy with who you are. I have been happy for who I am lately, except for the last day or two things have been pretty good. And really when you start focusing on YOU, the benefits will come. I have already gotten 2 womens numbers who have approached me at the bar to strike up a convo, ha ha my friends get mad since I am newly single and they can;t seem to figure it out.I took it to heart when people say its about yourself, I'm not going out to meet new girls I;m just going out to have fun and live MY life and it shows and women like that. Like so many LS users before me have said just stay strong and go the course, time heals all wounds and so do great friends and family during that time.
ummike26 Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 I had the same thing happen to me yesterday from my ex-gf. She left me 11 days ago by moving all her stuff out of my apartment while I was at school and leaving me a note. I haven't talked to her since. I didn't respond to her text which has me feeling bad. It was one of these general Happy Easter texts that I wasn't sure if she sent to everyone on her phone.. I don't like the way things ended between us so Im struggling to fight off the urge to email her all my thoughts on the breakup. A part of me feels like she doesnt deserve to know Im hurting from this situation.
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