Little_Bee Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 He broke up with me 5 weeks ago and just when I thought I am starting to get over him he appeared back in my thoughts. He has now been constantly in my thoughts the past two days and it is rather annoying. It's not as it was at the beginning and I don't feel like crying all the time but it nevertheless hurts to have to think about him constantly. I have started a new hobby and met lovely people over the past 5 weeks but since yesterday he suddenly re-appeared in my thoughts. Does it mean that I am still not over him or is this the last appearance before I finally feel free of him? At the beginning I was very down, then I started to be angry with him (with regards to him being emotional blunted, completely selfish and an idiot), this feeling went around a week ago and I felt fairly ok and only thought about him occasionally but since yesterday I started to miss him again, to wish there would be a way back (even though I know that wouldn't work anyway). I am at a point that I just don't want to think about him and be free off him so why does he re-appears in my thoughts again?
Scorpio6913 Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 He broke up with me 5 weeks ago and just when I thought I am starting to get over him he appeared back in my thoughts. He has now been constantly in my thoughts the past two days and it is rather annoying. It's not as it was at the beginning and I don't feel like crying all the time but it nevertheless hurts to have to think about him constantly. I have started a new hobby and met lovely people over the past 5 weeks but since yesterday he suddenly re-appeared in my thoughts. Does it mean that I am still not over him or is this the last appearance before I finally feel free of him? At the beginning I was very down, then I started to be angry with him (with regards to him being emotional blunted, completely selfish and an idiot), this feeling went around a week ago and I felt fairly ok and only thought about him occasionally but since yesterday I started to miss him again, to wish there would be a way back (even though I know that wouldn't work anyway). I am at a point that I just don't want to think about him and be free off him so why does he re-appears in my thoughts again? I think that is totally normal, part of the grieving process & you'll go through different stages at different times until one day it will no longer bother you. All my best wishes for you!
ilovedhim Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 We're in the same spot except you've been NC much longer which doesn't give me much hope. The pain is unbearable. Funny how we want them back so badly but know that's not what's good for us.
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