neliel Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 dating this guy for three weeks, made it exclusive on the 21st. Havent slept together or anything, but he's exhibiting shady behavior (still has online dating profile active and logs on, doesnt answer the phone but will send a text minutes later, says will call then doesnt, avoids answering questions ie: "why cant you talk on the phone" and responds with some nonsense about being sorry for being bad at communicating - etc). Is this guy just a waste of time or what the hell is his problem?
mortensorchid Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 Acting shady? Honestly, cannot determine if he is truly "acting shady" or really being shady based on what you have said. Have you asked him about the phone call / text situation? If not, you should. Then ask why it is he does that. As for things on the computer, no need to check into that if he has a good answer for the phone calls.
soulm8 Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 Why would you want to hang onto this? You do realize it'll only get worse after you have sex with him. He doesn't deserve to call you his girlfriend... so don't be.
refurb Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 Keep in mind people are on their best behavior at the beginning of a relationship. It's unlikely to get any better. RF
Professor X Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 dating this guy for three weeks, made it exclusive on the 21st. Havent slept together or anything, but he's exhibiting shady behavior (still has online dating profile active and logs on, doesnt answer the phone but will send a text minutes later, says will call then doesnt, avoids answering questions ie: "why cant you talk on the phone" and responds with some nonsense about being sorry for being bad at communicating - etc). Is this guy just a waste of time or what the hell is his problem? I can tell you that most guys, when they want a girl, they will turn the world upside down to be with her. If he doesn't call you back... Should be a big enough hint.
Eternal Sunshine Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 You should absolutely get out of this ASAP.
cerridwen Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 I can tell you that most guys, when they want a girl, they will turn the world upside down to be with her. If he doesn't call you back... Should be a big enough hint. ^This. A true honeymoon phase is when two people can't get enough of each other. Not when one can't get a return call from the other.
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