pink.fairy Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 I just thought I'd create a thread where I can vent, without having to make a new thread each time I have something new to say. Responses are encouraged. Will be good to talk to others about the situation also. I've already posted a bit on my situation, but will recount where I'm at. My (ex) boyfriend broke up with me going on 4 weeks ago now. We've spoken on and off since then about trivial things. I don't feel that we've spoken properly about the break up (not for lack of trying on my part), so I've been finding it hard to accept and move on. I've had no closure, I guess. It's got to the point where I feel like I've tried all I can to try and fix things/talk properly, and I seem to be the only one bothered doing so right now. He isn't completely withdrawn, but he's not overly putting in the effort to talk things over properly either. At this point, I need to back off and leave it all up to him. If we're going to resolve things, it needs to come from him now. I last heard from him this morning, but I have decided I'm not contacting him at all from now on. I feel like I'm always the one initiating things; so it's his turn now. I won't contact him at all until he contacts me first. So that's what I'm trying to get through at the moment; not contacting him at all. No calls, texts, emails or reaching out of any kind. I know he's away on holiday at the moment where he can't really contact me, so I know not to expect to hear from him for another week at least. I'm really hoping after that point he'll get in touch with me so we can sort through things. Not necessarily to get back together; even if it's to just discuss things and get closure so I/we can move on properly.
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