Rooke Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 You're probably all aware of my story. That I moved to a new city for xMM and now it's over and it's 2 weeks and 1 day since we had any contact. I'm thinking about going abroad for the summer and getting a holiday job. What does everyone think? Or should I stick it out here?
so-wrong Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 You're probably all aware of my story. That I moved to a new city for xMM and now it's over and it's 2 weeks and 1 day since we had any contact. I'm thinking about going abroad for the summer and getting a holiday job. What does everyone think? Or should I stick it out here? Wow, sounds fabulous! I say go for it whilst you haven't any commitments. You're a long time tied down once you have.
Author Rooke Posted April 25, 2011 Author Posted April 25, 2011 Wow, sounds fabulous! I say go for it whilst you haven't any commitments. You're a long time tied down once you have. My Mum is worried about what I'll do when I come back...but at least it means I'll be rid of him for good.
JadedAmore Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 I say go for it. If this is something you are wanting to do for you, then why not? There wouldn't be much point to sticking around and making yourself suffer. Hugs!
TurboGirl Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 If you can swing it to go abroad for the summer, to a different country and work, I would say by all means, GO! The you can come back to your home town, if you wish, and start over. Nothing like living in another country to learn about yourself and to learn how strong you can be when you have to. You would be so busy you wouldn't have time to dwell on the past!
Owl Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 Rooke, you're on your own. While it has disadvantages, it also means that the only person you are responsible for is yourself. I say leave that city if you've got the option. You went there in large part to be with him...perhaps there are job opportunities elsewhere...closer to others that can help you if needed?
so-wrong Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 My Mum is worried about what I'll do when I come back...but at least it means I'll be rid of him for good. Obviously you'll have considered things already but would you be able to find work in your line of business when you get back, if you quit your job now? It could well be a chance to return home when you get back if that's what you want. Presumably you're not tied into a long lease on your property? Have you any thoughts as to which country you'd like to go to & the type of job you would do?
Emme Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 *Emme helps Rooke pack* Holiday vacation spot sounds lovely. You only have to promise one thing. No relations sexually or emotionally... just have fun. Enjoy yourself and no rebound romances Party and dance the nights away while you earn money. I really wanted you to leave his city. Put yourself first, always.
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