kerry Posted April 8, 2004 Posted April 8, 2004 i was wondering something..i sometimes tease my guy and say i'm going to dye my hair a strange color, or gain 200 pounds.. it's just been to make fun of the sterotypical "married life" of the woman changing the way she looks after she gets married. the thing is, my guy doesn't seem to care. he says he could care less what color hair i have or how i look. i suppose i could take this as a compliment. the thing is, being physically attracted to someone is a part of being in love.. and if he doesn't care what i look like, where does the in love part come into play? sorry if this came out confused.. i just rambled away.
Fedup&givingup Posted April 8, 2004 Posted April 8, 2004 IMO, he's just saying that to come off with the "good guy" image. I think it does matter if you let yourself go, and you are right in that being attracted to your mate/spouse is very much a part of being in love.
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