update

[liliyah]

OK well ive posted my story here a while ago its HURT AND LOST anyway long story short i went nc and worked great he came back and we were fine better then befor to make thing better i found out i was pregnant and he is over the moon !!! coming to ultrasounds with me and very involved in the pregnancy anyway this weekend he was at my house and was feeling very crappy he has a bad bad cold so his atitude was pretty bad he was sleeping all the time etc fair enough hes sick but this morning he got up and didnt talk to me at all nothing so i asked him what was going on if he was angry or somthing he said what the f** do you think im sick ! ok well i said if your to sick you should go home because you dont feel like staying here he said yep im going so i went to talk to him in the room and asked if he could sit down and try to talk to me i know he is sick but there is somthing else going on ..he threw his stuff on the floor and said you better f***ing start to talk i need to go home i said no your getting angry i just want to clear things out befor you go so then he told me to move away so he could go i said no talk to me he then got up and grabed me and pushed to to the floor a hurt my elbow and my tummy ( im 10 weeks pregnant ) he then went to his car and came back saying he didnt mean to hurt me and he was sorry then he said is there anything i can do i said you have dont enough he said ill call you tonight ... what the hell is going on need advise do i forgive him ? did we just break up ? does he regret what he has done ? im very lost

[Thatguyintx]

This won't make me many friends, but I can be a real a** when I am sick. I really just want to be left alone. I know I can't have "talks" when I am feeling real sick.

 

No excuses for him pushing you. But the crabby part may be just that. Maybe he needs time to get over being sick and this has no reflection on your relationship.