It Happened... Ex wants to talk.

[shawn923]

I am currently 15 days NC. My log is here... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t274226/

 

 

She has a bf at the moment, most likely a rebound... So she texts me a quote from a love song today, around 7. I didnt reply... But i was very curious. Anyways, hours pass by and she calls me at 11. This being her 2nd attempt at reaching me, i figured it was important and picked up. She casually asks what im doing and so forth, and just says the text she sent me was cuz she like the song... So i immediately sense bullshhit, lol, this was about 3 mins thru. So i said ill ttyl, im busy now... and she reluctantly hung up.

 

She immediately texts me back, and asks if we can talk. I say sure. ABout what? And she begins pouring her heart out... "I pushed u away" "Im having mixed thoughts" "i think about you 24.7" "I feel like shhit when i see you".... I asked is there any going back? she said she honestly doesnt know... Then i asked she wanted to discuss US, in person, she said yes... And im meeting with her tuesday for lunch.

 

So what do i think of this? And how do i handle this meeting? Im ready for any outcome...

[TaraMaiden]

THis is a dual thread. Don't double thread - it will get deleted, and confuses members as to which one they're contributing to.

 

I replied in the other thread,

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t275177/

 

I would respectfully suggest others do the same.

[Hules]

Shawn don't make me get my beat stick out again. Keep it to one thread your NC log.

[Chi townD]

Okay, lets look at this logically.

 

1. broke up with you and replaced you in a hurry.

2. Flaunts an kisses boyfriend in your presence to rub your nose in it.

3. She states she doesn't knows what she wants.

4. SHE STILL HAS A BOYFRIEND. You would be the rebound to the rebound.

 

I would walk very easily on this thin ice. I think that she's caused too much damage and I have a feeling that you recent her more than anything else.