takemedrunkimhome Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 so basically, i feel like my ex only talks to me when there's a problem. a few weeks ago i was with my friends at a bar. everyone was pretty drunk, including myself and i saw her brother there. everything was going well, he said hey and asked me how i was doing, etc. anyways at the end of the night when we were leaving he started cussing at me and calling me names. i tried to keep cool, but i was drunk. of course, being drunk the first thing i did was attack my ex and told him she screwed me over. i guess i meant it, i do speak the truth when im intoxicated. after that i felt bad for blaming her for something her brother did, i apologized. i didn't expect a response, but of course, she texted me. on top of that, my friends got involved and said i wasn't over her, which is true. i told her it wasn't though because of the fact that she moved on so fast that i wanted to prove that i've done the same. i'm back to where i started... hoping she misses me, whatever. she knows that im not over her... so, why does she jump at being friends any chance she gets and then suddenly leaves me hanging for months until something comes up again? then, im left to pick myself up from what she did. i tried to cut contact, were in the same social circle so this makes it difficult hearing about what shes doing and with who. i just wanna move on with my life, but things like my friends and drama, i can't seem to. it's a vicious circle that i can't grab a hold of. any help?
betterdeal Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 Get out of that circle. Either emotionally, socially or geographically.
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