misssmartypants Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 Ok, so I went out with this guy twice. We talked and texted constantly and then all of a sudden, there's nothing. No texts, no calls. I try and he doesn't respond. He's online in facebook, but wont chat with me. I don't get it. We have lots in common. Good chemistry, had fun together. There was no clue as to why he would just stop. And here's the thing, I know that I shouldn't care. I should just take a minute and feel gladd that he isn't my problem. But I can't help it. I miss him. I miss having someone in my life who wants to hear from me and who is fun to be around. Does anyone know why a person would do this?
Jazzari Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 The only reason I can think of, is that he is getting serious with someone else. I hope I'm wrong and he comes back around.
xpaperxcutx Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 It means he's avoiding you. It's happened to the best of us however, instead of hanging onto the what ifs, don't take it as a rejection so much as it's his loss. And two dates doesn't really constitute anything.
TigerCub Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 Ok, so I went out with this guy twice. We talked and texted constantly and then all of a sudden, there's nothing. No texts, no calls. I try and he doesn't respond. He's online in facebook, but wont chat with me. I don't get it. We have lots in common. Good chemistry, had fun together. There was no clue as to why he would just stop. And here's the thing, I know that I shouldn't care. I should just take a minute and feel gladd that he isn't my problem. But I can't help it. I miss him. I miss having someone in my life who wants to hear from me and who is fun to be around. Does anyone know why a person would do this? The 2 things in bold may be coming across to him. You went out with this guy 2 times! Sure you've texted and chatted, but maybe you're putting way too much "value" on him too quickly. I'm sorry, but I just don't see "missing" someone after going out with them twice. You like him, I get it, but maybe he senses that you like him too much too fast, that you want more than he's expecting at this time. He's probably just testing you right now - pulling away to see how you're going to react. To see if you're going to keep calling or if you're gonna be like "whatever, I got it going on and I don't need him" It sucks that he's the type to play games, that alone, I think would be a turn off, but if you want this guy - don't chase him anymore, and hopefully he'll come around. Good luck
chuckles11 Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 Maybe he didn't feel that he had fun or that you two had good chemistry. I've been on dates before that I thought went great, but the other person didn't.
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