Professor X Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 You see BiscuitXOXO, you simply skip the troll.
BiscuitXOXO Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 I had to look up IBTC FWIW, my best female friend for nearly a decade was/is ethnic Chinese and had/has 32a/b's (I helped her shop) and she looked singularly spectacular in a bikini well into her mid-late 30's when we last had contact. Again, it's the entirety of the woman. I'm sure her husband appreciates her just fine Ok back on topic. If your friend and I share similar genes, then my future looks bright indeed. Just curious, is it ok to compare this scenario: He takes off her bra, and then realizes it's all padding. With this one: She takes off his pants, and then realizes it's really small. Let's assume that both her and him end up being very good in bed. But what would the initial reaction be...?
Professor X Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 Ok back on topic. If your friend and I share similar genes, then my future looks bright indeed. Just curious, is it ok to compare this scenario: He takes off her bra, and then realizes it's all padding. With this one: She takes off his pants, and then realizes it's really small. Let's assume that both her and him end up being very good in bed. But what would the initial reaction be...? So it's something you expect vs something you do not. Don't know if you can actually compare since breasts are visible (their size and shape) via the shirt, whereas the mans package is not. And about the reactions, it is safe to assume that most men won't care, cause as it was said earlier, we'll be thankful to see you naked. As for women, I don't know, you tell me? Depends wouldn't you say?
somedude81 Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 Just curious, is it ok to compare this scenario: He takes off her bra, and then realizes it's all padding. With this one: She takes off his pants, and then realizes it's really small. Let's assume that both her and him end up being very good in bed. But what would the initial reaction be...? I do hope you realize that you can't tell a man's erect size by his flaccid size. It's also pretty hard to hide an erection when wearing pants, so you should get a good idea of how big it is, if he is already hard. Though for the comparison you are talking about, the equivalent would a guy stuffing his underwear to appear bigger than average.
ASG Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 So it's something you expect vs something you do not. Don't know if you can actually compare since breasts are visible (their size and shape) via the shirt, whereas the mans package is not. And about the reactions, it is safe to assume that most men won't care, cause as it was said earlier, we'll be thankful to see you naked. As for women, I don't know, you tell me? Depends wouldn't you say? Well, but the topic at hand deals with padding! And I've seen several bra models with so much padding that an A cup will be transformed into a D. So you wouldn't really be able to tell at first glace with the bra on. As for the reaction to a man's small size... Well, I actually experienced this not too long ago with my ex. He probably has the smallest penis I've ever encountered (or at least one of, I'm not sure how it compares to a couple of the 1st guys I was with, I just remember they not being impressive) but I didn't let that phase me. I figured I'd give him a chance and take it from there. In any case, I'm quite small, so bigger isn't necessarily better. And after that we ended up dating for over 7 months, so I'd say it didn't matter. So based on my experience and personal liking, I don't think I would be too phased by a small penis (if we're not talking micropenis here) until I knew what it could do. If it could do the job just fine, then I'd "keep" it!
Author Jazzari Posted April 25, 2011 Author Posted April 25, 2011 Ok back on topic. If your friend and I share similar genes, then my future looks bright indeed. Just curious, is it ok to compare this scenario: He takes off her bra, and then realizes it's all padding. With this one: She takes off his pants, and then realizes it's really small. Let's assume that both her and him end up being very good in bed. But what would the initial reaction be...?To me a padded bra would be similar to a man sticking a sock in his pants. (btw - I went shopping today and saw one bra that advertised that it would increase you 2 cups sizes. That's quite a difference!) But anyway, can you imagine if they started making men's underwear with penis padding?
Ruby Slippers Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 But anyway, can you imagine if they started making men's underwear with penis padding? They do.
Anxiety Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 I was disappointed when I first found out my exgf was wearing a padded bra. When I squeezed them for the first time, all I could feel was padding. I don't think she wears the right size bra. She wears a 36D, but I swear they are only C cups. If I can get my whole hand in the cup without any problem its too big. I don't understand why woman wear cups sizes that are to big. Having a bigger letter on that bra doesn't make your boobs any bigger.
Author Jazzari Posted April 25, 2011 Author Posted April 25, 2011 They do. O. M. G!! Clearly I am leading a very sheltered life.
Professor X Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 I don't understand why woman wear cups sizes that are to big. Having a bigger letter on that bra doesn't make your boobs any bigger. I guess for the very same reason they wear makeup. Deception my friend, is the key word I believe.
Anxiety Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 I guess for the very same reason they wear makeup. Deception my friend, is the key word I believe. The deception is only in their own mind.
Ruby Slippers Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 I guess for the very same reason they wear makeup. Deception my friend, is the key word I believe. Well, I'll pass on a gem I read on this message board about an hour ago: "Remember, it's not a lie if other people believe it to be true." And you know, I don't see men holding women accountable for this deception. In fact, men reward us for using tricks to look better than we actually do -- even the ones who say they want 'a natural girl'. Please. I'm sure that if you discover that girl you're trying to nail is wearing a padded bra, you're going to kick her out of bed and break it off with her because she's a liar, right?
Professor X Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 (edited) Well, I'll pass on a gem I read on this message board about an hour ago: "Remember, it's not a lie if other people believe it to be true." And you know, I don't see men holding women accountable for this deception. In fact, men reward us for using tricks to look better than we actually do -- even the ones who say they want 'a natural girl'. Please. I'm sure that if you discover that girl you're trying to nail is wearing a padded bra, you're going to kick her out of bed and break it off with her because she's a liar, right? Oh, but I never said it's bad. It's part of the game, I know. By all means, I myself make sure to at least dress properly before I go out (even to the market). P.S. I liked that gem, reminds me of the gem from Aladdin "You're only in trouble if you get caught" Edited April 26, 2011 by Professor X
Yookie Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 Actually, there seems to be a conspiracy among bra companies to make us all around the same size. They don't really carry padded bras in my size because I am a larger size, but almost all the bras in my size say "minimizing". And all the smaller bras have padding. So I'm thinking there's this idea that we all need to be c-cups to fit in. I don't know. That's just what I think. Good observation! I noticed the same thing. While I do think most guys like curvy women the most and prefer larger breasts, I'm not one of them. Don't get me wrong, I like curvy women, but I like slender women with smaller breasts more. I realize I'm probably in the minority regarding this, but that doesn't take away that I get surprised by the comments I get from other guys regarding the women I like. Flat chested and skinny is what most guys think of the women I like. But then again I find their tastes regarding women to be rather unsophisticated. I know some guys that would base the decision of whether they think a girl is girlfriend material or not on her curviness. I would even go as far to say that if they marry a woman, they'd marry her curviness instead of herself. In my opinion it's a very superficial attitude, but I've found that it's not uncommon amongst guys. In my opinion I think Rachel Leigh Cook in this photo: http://bit.ly/eZtxXA , aesthetically has the ideal breast size for her body type and since I like slender girls with her body type, like for example Natalie Portman and Mila Kunis, that breast size in my opinion hits the aesthetic sweet spot. So you women might probably wonder why I'm telling this. The reason I'm telling this is that first of all I noticed a lot of women are insecure about having smaller breasts, however there are guys out there that prefer that. While they might be in the minority, they are by no means rare. A lot of women even get breast implants, but in my opinion breast implants often destroy the elegant silhouette of a woman. Breast implants often make the breasts proportionally too big for their body type. And there are guys that are encouraging this, but the fact is, that if a woman gets breast implants, she quite likely does it for men. But men that encourage women to undergo surgery to enlarge their breast size are generally not the most sophisticated and considerate of men. Ask yourself if that is actually the kind of guy you're aiming for. Thanks for your comments. Only within the last few years, I've realized why guys like me the way I am (slim, b-cup). Most women my age with bigger chest are sagging all over the place while mine are still saluting the sun lol.
carhill Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 Just curious, is it ok to compare this scenario: He takes off her bra, and then realizes it's all padding. With this one: She takes off his pants, and then realizes it's really small. Let's assume that both her and him end up being very good in bed. But what would the initial reaction be...? Well, I'm pretty average so I can't replicate that part of the equation, but a lovely lady I had the pleasure of knowing intimately was, upon disrobing, decidedly small, almost like a teenage boy, so I assumed she was using some padding in her clothing. TBH, I really had no reaction at all, since she was by far the best kisser I had/have ever encountered. Not coincidentally, she was the best lover I ever had the pleasure of knowing. TBH, I didn't remember nor care what size her breasts were. It wasn't germaine to the dynamic, at all.
Red Arremer Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 The last girl I dated, I dated her for about a month, we were intimate quite a few times and I honestly could not tell you what any of her bras looked like. So I think that is a pretty good assessment of how important bras are to men.
Author Jazzari Posted April 26, 2011 Author Posted April 26, 2011 I had a little flower in the center of my bra the first time my husband got me down to bare skin. He managed to get it off somehow and kept it in his wallet. 18 years of marriage and right before he left on his last road trip he showed me that he still carried it with him. I wish I had been able to get it back, but it wasn't recovered from the wreck. I guess that's kind of silly and so unimportant, but it still bothers me.
Eternal Sunshine Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 My ex bf remembers the bra I wore the first time we were intimate. So not all men are the same. But then again, I like wearing pretty lingerie...
Nexus One Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 I had a little flower in the center of my bra the first time my husband got me down to bare skin. He managed to get it off somehow and kept it in his wallet. 18 years of marriage and right before he left on his last road trip he showed me that he still carried it with him. I wish I had been able to get it back, but it wasn't recovered from the wreck. I guess that's kind of silly and so unimportant, but it still bothers me. I don't think it's silly. It has emotional value to you. Maybe you could look at it this way. He didn't want to part with it.
Author Jazzari Posted April 26, 2011 Author Posted April 26, 2011 I don't think it's silly. It has emotional value to you. Maybe you could look at it this way. He didn't want to part with it. Oh, wow. Sending a huge hug your way. Thank you for that wonderful thought!
Enchanted Girl Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 I was disappointed when I first found out my exgf was wearing a padded bra. When I squeezed them for the first time, all I could feel was padding. I don't think she wears the right size bra. She wears a 36D, but I swear they are only C cups. If I can get my whole hand in the cup without any problem its too big. I don't understand why woman wear cups sizes that are to big. Having a bigger letter on that bra doesn't make your boobs any bigger. Because the majority of women do not wear the correct bra size. There's actually a lot of women out there as well who are wearing bras that are too small. And it doesn't help that some of us (me, being one of those people) have extreme fluctuations in weight over our lifetime. I have no idea what my bra size is the majority of the time because they are always changing size due to my weight changing a lot.
fishtaco Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 As long as it's a bra I can undo easily with one hand, then it's a good bra.
ASG Posted April 26, 2011 Posted April 26, 2011 Because the majority of women do not wear the correct bra size. There's actually a lot of women out there as well who are wearing bras that are too small. And it doesn't help that some of us (me, being one of those people) have extreme fluctuations in weight over our lifetime. I have no idea what my bra size is the majority of the time because they are always changing size due to my weight changing a lot. I have this problem as well. I have some bras that are too small cause I gained some weight, but I don't want to chuck them, cause then I won't have enough! I also find that sometimes, depending on weight, I end up being in the middle of 2 cups. One is slightly small, but the one up doesn't fit well, cause there's too much fabric.
Anxiety Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 Because the majority of women do not wear the correct bra size. There's actually a lot of women out there as well who are wearing bras that are too small. And it doesn't help that some of us (me, being one of those people) have extreme fluctuations in weight over our lifetime. I have no idea what my bra size is the majority of the time because they are always changing size due to my weight changing a lot. She said she was measured in Victoria Secret, but I don't think they did a good job. I wanted her to try on a C cup just to see if it would fit better. Just saying that she wears a D cup must be a moral booster. When I'm staring right at them the cup size means nothing to me. They were spectacular, I wish she would have let me play with them more often.
Disillusioned Posted April 27, 2011 Posted April 27, 2011 ...and yet, the Topfree movement is a non-starter here in the US because the sight of bare boobs is harmful to kids and morons.
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