ASG Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 Meh, I say just burn all the bras. Under a certain size, women just don't need 'em. If their perky, don't even bother. But over a certain size you HAVE to wear them!
Ruby Slippers Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 I have a feeling I am wearing the wrong bra size. D-Lish, can you give a summary of how to measure yourself properly? Is this technique correct?
somedude81 Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 Bras are also about modesty and preventing bouncage. A lot of us bounce a bunch even when we're just walking without them. I know you wouldn't complain, but I think its distracting and inappropriate in situations that don't directly involve sex. Also, it keeps the nipples from showing underneath as much as well. The only reason there is so much sexualization about a woman's breasts is all the effort to keep them covered and restrained. The bra is a very recent garment.
Enchanted Girl Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 The only reason there is so much sexualization about a woman's breasts is all the effort to keep them covered and restrained. The bra is a very recent garment. I sort of agree. Except I'd like to point out that the undergarments in the past were much more restrictive to the breasts. I only agree in the sense that there are certain countries and cultures where people walk around naked and no one has a problem with it, while we'd feel awkward there, but yea, the bra being a recent garment thing . . . . it is, but that's because in the past we had to wear more restrictive ones that cut off our breathing . . . . like corsets and things. Its still not appropriate to do in this culture, so I'd advise women not to go braless unless they are looking for that kind of attention from men because they are going to get it.
Ross MwcFan Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 They discontinued my favorite unpadded bra so this has been on my mind... WHY don't they make bras without padding?!! It drives me crazy. I don't need or want padding. And I hate the fake look. So men - how do you feel when you date a girl that looks stacked. And then finally get her naked and find out it was all foam? Or even grope her over her clothes and feel nothing but foam padding? I'd be dissapointed but it wouldn't be a deal breaker.
Disillusioned Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 They discontinued my favorite unpadded bra so this has been on my mind... WHY don't they make bras without padding?!! It drives me crazy. I don't need or want padding. And I hate the fake look. Do what I did when I wanted decent pants... get yourself a sewing machine, try your own different patterns and different fabrics, and sew your own bra that's perfect for you. Two women did just that back in '88, and that's how the sports bra originated. So men - how do you feel when you date a girl that looks stacked. And then finally get her naked and find out it was all foam? Or even grope her over her clothes and feel nothing but foam padding? Personally I never cared much for busty women. Big boobs look kind of gross and attract men who are barbarians the way picnics attract ants.
RP39 Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 They discontinued my favorite unpadded bra so this has been on my mind... WHY don't they make bras without padding?!! It drives me crazy. I don't need or want padding. And I hate the fake look. So men - how do you feel when you date a girl that looks stacked. And then finally get her naked and find out it was all foam? Or even grope her over her clothes and feel nothing but foam padding? I hardly know what a bra is other than you all wear them over your breasts so I have no opinion either way.
Els Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 Meh, I say just burn all the bras. Under a certain size, women just don't need 'em. If their perky, don't even bother. If you guys would just bloody stop staring at protruding nipples we might try. Not ALL women are out to get ogled at.
Els Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 Too bad; blame your fellow men for not knowing subtlety. The recent trend of thought by men, propagated especially on this board (If she's showing them, she's inviting you to look at them and she shouldn't feel insulted if you do! wtf.) is probably also a HUGE deterrent in the quest for freer expression by women. I'd love to go bra-less (and I can, with my frame) but frankly, I don't care for my nipples to be ogled at by any tom, dick and harry who pleases.
Els Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 I'll blame both the fellow men and women for this, but too many of you give the ones that stare the most a free pass and blame the others because they are easier targets. Oh come on, you're just passing the buck. I've never seen a sane woman to happily go with the creepy dude ogling her breasts, anyway.
somedude81 Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 If you guys would just bloody stop staring at protruding nipples we might try. Not ALL women are out to get ogled at. That goes back to my previous point. For some reason, a woman's nipples have become hyper-sexualized. So when a man can see a women's nipples poking through her shirt, of course he's going to flip out. I admit to being a breast man and I love big nipples, but I have really no idea why I do. I think it may be the whole taboo thing.
Professor X Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 So Jazzari, I hope the guys answered your question :laugh:
mitchell Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 But getting back on topic- I think most guys are just far too thankful to have a naked chick lying underneath them, that the fact that her boobs might be a bit smaller without her bra on isn't on their mind. The focus becomes getting that penis into that vagina;) You've summed me up perfectly!!!
carhill Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 I tend to prefer the entirety of a woman versus any one part. That said, whatever natural is for the lady, that is my preference. Natural is a spectrum of sizes and shapes and specifics. Large, small, symmetrical, asymmetrical, etc, etc. Favorite movie bra shot The women I've dated, made love with and the one I married were all over the size/shape range and all natural, reflecting my personal preference. FTR, I don't feel 'lucky' when my penis gets into a vagina. Sex is an expression of how I feel. No woman does me a favor by making love with me. It's something we give to each other. I wouldn't stay with a woman if/once I sensed otherwise. Oh, on the nipple thing.... it's closest a man gets to seeing an erection on a woman when they are not making love; it's a sign of possible arousal, just like a woman views a man's erect penis as a sign of arousal, even if contained within his pants. Of course, nipples get erect from other factors, but arousal is one of them and most men respond to that, if evident.
rocketboy9 Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 The only thing most men are concerned about is how quick can I get the bra off so she can be naked for me . That being said I have never thought about bra's to much as I was picturing your naked already.
Kelemort Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 My bra doesn't have padding. But thankfully, I'm not a member of IBTC. You don't even want to know what a hot disaster I am on wet days in a white t-shirt. In all seriousness, I've often had the opposite problem - I'm a very conservative dresser and I hate clothes that are form-fitting. When it's all come off in the past, the response has overwhelmingly been, "OMG REALLY!" Hellz yeah!
BiscuitXOXO Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 But thankfully, I'm not a member of IBTC. I rarely ever think about my 32A's, and do realize that they are the best for my body type. I also realize some men like small breasts. But when I see and hear certain comments I QQ inside. Even when people put down women with large breasts, at least they know men are ogling them. And even if that isn't pleasant, it's still better than pity and being considered somehow unwomenly. Vote BiscuitXOXO for President of IBTC!
ASG Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 What a piece of **** you are. Get a grip on yourself. He said nothing wrong. Most men are actually picturing the woman naked while trying to get the bra off!
carhill Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 Vote BiscuitXOXO for President of IBTC!I had to look up IBTC FWIW, my best female friend for nearly a decade was/is ethnic Chinese and had/has 32a/b's (I helped her shop) and she looked singularly spectacular in a bikini well into her mid-late 30's when we last had contact. Again, it's the entirety of the woman. I'm sure her husband appreciates her just fine
Professor X Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 He describes you all as objects. Oh man, you are so damaged. Though I'm not blaming you. BUT, you really need to get yourself fixed, ASAP. All you're post are full of bitterness. Yeah, yeah, I get it, you're 39, never ever kissed. I GET IT. But I fail to see the point in spreading your bitterness on this forum. The time you waste here you could use to go to a therapist to help you rebuild your self-esteem. Sorry, there's a limit to how long I can watch someone drown in his own self-pity. So again, you're the only one who can help yourself, no-one else can or will. But by all means, if that's what you think you should do...
ASG Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 He describes you all as objects. From that comment? No he doesn't. He just describes most men. And honestly, if you get to that part, most women too!
ASG Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 We see what you prefer. You're as dumb as a Texas women. I hate liveing in this ****ing crappy state. No, you're the dumb one. For some reason, you put women so far up in a pedestal that now you resent them. A passing comment isn't objectifying women. And if it is, damn, we're surrounded by it! And women objectifying men, as well! What I prefer is a MAN who treats me like a WOMAN, not like some porcelain doll that needs to be "romantically kissed". And now, after all your adoring of the women, they still don't pay any attention to you (how dare they), and you're mad! Angry at all women. And Angry at all men that don't share your views on how women are sacred! Sorry to dissappoint, but women aren't sacred and don't need to be put on a pedestal. Sure, it's nice to be treated well, but we're just people.
BiscuitXOXO Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 We see what you prefer. You're as dumb as a Texas women. I hate liveing in this ****ing crappy state. LOL. As a Texan woman, I just bust out laughing when I read that. Move to California then. After all, the girls there are fine, fresh, fierce, with bikinis on top
BiscuitXOXO Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 No ****ing jobs in California. How about New York? It's a concrete jungle where dreams are made of, there's nothing you can't do. The streets will make you feel brand new, and big lights will inspire you. :lmao:
Professor X Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 How about New York? It's a concrete jungle where dreams are made of, there's nothing you can't do. The streets will make you feel brand new, and big lights will inspire you. :lmao: Do not feed the troll!:p
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