FlyAway&ComeBack Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 I have just came to realize my ex-fiance has depression. He always wants to be alone. Doesn't want to talk to anyone or do anything.. Feels very uncomfortable around people, even me. Yet, he still lets me come see him or comes to see me & what not, even if he doesn't want to. I pointed out that I thought he was depressed. Which I think I planted a seed in his head (hopefully) and asked if he would go get it checked out.. Not just for me but for himself.. he is use to feeling this way, but is so much alone & in his shell since I moved. He initiated the break up.. but said we would work on us.. and then he started to get more and more into this slum of not caring.. Which he still does but not as much as he use to. Anyways, the point of this is do you think that his depression would be stopping us from being together again? He still says we could be together in the future and I still love him with everything. He still is in love with me but only a little bit.. Not as much as he use to be. Like I said, I'm just wondering if this could be stopping his feelings. He even admitted to me that he is ignoring his feelings at this point in time. Trying to numb himself with recreational drugs and what not.. I guess to stop him from feeling like he does now.
reallyconfused2542 Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 i was that way a while back. plenty happy to just be by myself. at least that what i said. i was miserable and lonely on the inside. once i started going and seeing a therapist i started feelings much better. i had a huge weight lifted off my shoulders. not that i still dont feel depressed cause i do quite a bit but at least i have some coping skills for it and i dont have everything internalized anymore. lotta guys wont go cause they think it shows weakness or something or its for girls but let me tell you that it was the best thing i could have done. i was a ticking timebomb until i was able to get everything off my chest(im an only child, not close enough to my parents to talk about feelings, dont like burdening friends so no one ever to talk to). and the drugs just put me in deeper. trust me i tried most of them. didnt help AT ALL. hope a different perspective helps a little
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Author FlyAway&ComeBack Posted April 25, 2011 Author Posted April 25, 2011 He smokes weed. That's all.. lol if he did anything else then I couldn't be with him. Weed not a "drug" in my book per say. IMO.
reallyconfused2542 Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 i agree. still should be seeing a therapist
Author FlyAway&ComeBack Posted April 26, 2011 Author Posted April 26, 2011 Well do you think it could be one of the issues causing us not to be together.. because he always wants to be alone etc?
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