FallenAngel84 Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 About 8-9 months in a relationship, after things start to get comfortable and I start seeing a clear future with the guy I'm seeing, a weird feeling comes over me. It's like I still am interested in them and I love him and can't imagine him with anyone else but me but the feeling shifts a bit. In my last relationship, I started feeling this way and it was a constant nagging feeling that eventually led me to break up with him. This time around, I've met a great guy, we have so much in common, he's so great to me, he's nice looking and I'm happy. Within the last week (after we started talking about getting an apartment together within the next year) I started feeling differently. I'm scared of this feeling... I'm wondering if it's the next level of a relationship where you just feel comfortable. The thought of losing him breaks my heart and I'm wondering if anyone else has ever felt this way. I know it's not always going to be butterflies in the stomach and sweaty palms, but how does a 'normal" comfortable relationship feel?
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