sweetbella500 Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 Hi I am new here..I came here looking for advice. I am not the other women but I know for fact my man has another women. I sometimes feel like the other women even through we been together for almost nine years. We live together. I found out about the other women because they work together and he told me SO many times he was done. I seen her love letter. Texts messages. He showed me them all. I don't get why he does this to us. Why cant he pick one. Does it ever really end?.. He thinks IM stupid I know for fact he with her tonight but he told me he's with his friends.. I waited all day for him to call me. I cried about this SO has he and her. She knows about me and she doesn't care. I've been nothing but nice to him.I take great care of him.We even went away last weekend. When does the pain stop for me?..How Does one act like nothing happen. He comes home to me sleeps with me. She calls when IM with him texts him.. IM not looking to bring anyone down.. I am looking to see how I can move on from this nightmare that started almost nine months ago. He told me many times it was over but all he does is lie to me. My heart is broken. I've only loved him and no one else. I can go on and on.. Thanks for listening. I am SO hurt and shocked by this
fooled once Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 I am sorry you are hurting. The best thing you can do is end the relationship. He is showing you he has no respect for you and you cannot keep a relationship going if only one of you is invested in it.
Carrot2000 Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 You deserve so much more. You should post in the infidelity forum to get support from people who have been where you are.
Heather1 Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 He's not going to choose if he doesn't have to. I bet he'll pick the one who tells him to go to hell, be the first!
JadedAmore Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 It's not a pretty feeling, and I'm sorry you're going through this. Obviously your partner does not respect you, and by staying you are not respecting yourself. At this point you might want to think about picking up the pieces and just walking away because as long as you continue to let this go on, your partner will have no intention of changing things.
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