SOLACEMENT Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 Need a second opinion, if you please. A couple months ago I dated this. We went on a couple dates, nothing major. It died off, some miscommunication on both our parts. We stopped talking, naturally. Anyway I sent him a text earlier this wee by mistake, he has the same name as a family member. So after our initial ''hi'' and ''what's up''. He brings up our former miscommunication and apologizes for it. I tell him my side and that is now behind us. Was thinking to myself that we had a good time when we dated. Anyway so I invite him over to watch the game,since he said he wasn't doing anything. Then he is like no I should come over there.I tell him no my place is better. Then he doesn't reply. Wth is his deal? I feel silly even asking this but I don't get why he replied to me. Apologized for something I never brought up, to now just ignore me. Should I contact him? Not really interested in dating him, more interested in just hanging out.
chuckles11 Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 Why do you want to "hang out" with him? What exactly caused you two to stop talking the first time? It doesn't seem like either of you are particularly interested in reconnecting.
Author SOLACEMENT Posted April 24, 2011 Author Posted April 24, 2011 No ''hang out'' just hang out. Don't think we see each other as a couple. That is probably why we both stopped talking with no problem. I think the last time we talked. We talked about making plans and neither one of us never contacted each other. When I contacted him this time, he said he was happy to hear from me. So why just ignore me now?
chuckles11 Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 (edited) No ''hang out'' just hang out. Don't think we see each other as a couple. That is probably why we both stopped talking with no problem. I think the last time we talked. We talked about making plans and neither one of us never contacted each other. When I contacted him this time, he said he was happy to hear from me. So why just ignore me now? Well based on what you wrote, it seems that he lost interest after your initial dates, then received your accidental texts and assumed that they were not actually accidental, but rather an excuse to re-spark conversation. Since he likely thought you purposely contacted him out of the blue and invited him over, he assumed that you probably wanted to hook up, but didn't want to come over to your place because he was concerned that you did actually just want to hang out and watch the game. Edit: To answer the question, he's ignoring you because he wasn't that interested in the first place, but was temporarily intrigued by you contacting him out of the blue. Edited April 24, 2011 by chuckles11
Author SOLACEMENT Posted April 24, 2011 Author Posted April 24, 2011 HAHA You may just be right. I really need to ponder over better things at night. Oh well, darn guys not wanting to be friend's and crap,lol. thanks for the replies chuckles
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