riggs Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 Cycling on a trail recently I noticed someone right on my back wheel for a few miles. She went around, went ahead a little, and slowed as if to allow me to catch up. I started the conversation but it was obvious that is what she wanted. We emailed and texted and then met a few days later and rode the same trail. She came across as shy and a little unsure of the situation. She really didn't know how to respond to much of anything I said. She hasn't responded to my recent texts and I'm not sure what to think. My instinct tells me she is backing away to protect herself. Anyway I'm trying to leave her alone for awhile but the whole thing is driving me nuts.
TheLoneSock Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 Mirror her. If she backs away, do so as well. Even if she's shy, she's still human. If she was ever interested in you at one point she will get back in touch with you. If not, you have your answer. No biggie.
chuckles11 Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 Well, the ball is in her court. You can't convince someone to like you. Either they do or they don't. Without knowing anything else about your date, it's possible that she also thought it was somewhat awkward and felt that there wasn't a connection. You've made several attempts to reach out to her, if she doesn't respond, it's time to move on. Continuing to focus your energies on someone who isn't reciprocating interest is pointless.
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