bobsegat000 Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 My ex and I have been together for 11 months. We broke up maybe 3 or 4 weeks ago and I've made all the mistakes i possibly could think of. I called her to change her mind, i begged her, i told her i loved her, i invited her to lunch so we could talk (which she accepted), I asked her to prom. Now the beginning of this week i decided on doing NC. I have no clue if I made the right move or not. I've deleted her off fb and my phone. The thing is I asked her out to prom at the park where we used to hang out all the time. (she said no later that day because her dad scheduled a family trip). We walked around for awhile and I asked her if she loves me and she said she does, but she always says she can't take me back because she would lose respect for herself and she says she sees a bad future with me. Now she says she sees a bad future because the last couple of months were the worst months of my life. I didn't get into the college i wanted so i was depressed and we barely hanged out because i was playing video games to relieve this depression and i was always a bit tense. She couldn't handle it and so broke up with me. Now she's about to go to NYU and I'm going to Mizzou next year because we're seniors, but I want to have a long distant relationship with her. I really believe that me and her can do this because if she still loves me for the way i treated her and I have no interest in others i think it'll work. I've been doing the NC for about a week now and I really hope i'm doing the right thing here. I feel more free as a person, but it was the confinement of having my girlfriend so i wouldn't be able to do other things that I want back.
Johnny85 Posted April 24, 2011 Posted April 24, 2011 You are still a young man; I am very confident things will work out for you in the love department, with her or without her. In the meantime, read the laws of attraction thread below: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t272674/ Good luck!
Author bobsegat000 Posted April 25, 2011 Author Posted April 25, 2011 Thanks, I read the thread and it really got me thinking. I think i'll write that letter and just live my life, although I think i'll pray to God always to just give me a chance with her, but that's about it. Thanks for the reply, means a lot.
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